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Anonymous wrote:Not having a third child. My DH said he wasn't ready and wouldn't be ready and I was already 38, and we had a frozen embryo so we decided to dispose of it. Our marriage wasn't in a good place. Hardest decisions I have ever made and almost immediately regretted it.
He told me a few years ago he wishes I would have pushed back and that he now wishes we had tried for the third. I was so mad.
We have 3 boy embryos on ice. Two girls already from IVF but I'm early 40s. Husband wants to get rid of them but I want to wait until I'm 45 to get rid of them. It's $80/month. I'm glad I came across this. I'm going to push back and have him wait.