I thought all phones were left in the locker otherwise turned in to the principal office. But as a parent, we need it to contact students if they have after school activities and mass shooting concerns me too |
Having 1/3 of kids with special needs sounds hard to believe, unless the parents are claiming iep for mild problems which in the past would be considered within the range of normal. Is that what's going on? Are parents over diagnosing, and expecting the school to solve their kids problems, instead of just supplementing at home? |
I'm guessing you grew up and went to school without a phone. I did, and we coordinated after-school activities just fine. And school shooting... I hope that never happens, an vast probability is it never will. |
I don't care if kids bring their phones to school, but they should not be out in class. If they are, they should have to hand them in until the end of the day. |
Read upthread to understand why what 'should' happen doesn't happen. Just leave the smartphones at home |
My BIL grew up with an undiagnosed mental health condition that we now recognize because our DC has it. BIL never got any treatment because it was "considered within the range of normal". His adult life has been a nightmare because he never got the help that he needed. We are investing a lot of time, money and effort into addressing DD's issues, but the IEP is a critical piece because it is a condition that particularly impacts her at school. We can't just "supplement at home". Her condition prevents her from meeting her basic needs at school and makes it impossible for teachers to properly assess her academic progress. Therefore she qualifies under federal law for special education services. |
I don't have the words to express condolences, and I don't know what's best for your dd. I cant imagine how mainstreaming could be best for a child who can't meet her basic needs or even be evaluated. But I do know that the school system would have more resources for your dd if more parents supplemented for mild deficiencies on their own. I also know that people will game the system, and I suspect that's causing a tragedy of the commons situation. |
They didn't want to give her an IEP. But I learned the right words to use to get it. A self-contained class would not be appropriate for her, sorry I can't give more details. Many, many children with her condition do not get support, because they don't cause disruption. |
In that case, congratulations on gaming the system |
It's not gaming the system, it's learning to use the system. They don't understand my child's condition, and they're not just going to give her an IEP without understanding how it impacts her in terminology they can understand. |
translation: in words that legally bind them. Read upthread to understand what problems that leads to |
Time to cut Football. And Bocce. |
The words legally bind them because there is a federal law that entitles my child to special education services. I get they have limited resources, but I'm not going to not advocate for my child. My BIL is a reminder of what can happen if I don't advocate. |
We are talking about kids with disabilities who have legal rights to an accessible education. Parents aren’t holding teachers to anything unreasonable. There is a legal, moral, and ethical obligation here and if you can’t meet it because of “resources” your beef isn’t with the parents and their expectations aren’t unreasonable. The problem lies elsewhere. Stop taking it out on the kids and their parents. |
Football is a money maker for schools. Boccee was pathetic. Never saw one kit. However, we don't need to be funding things like the kid museum and other non-profits. |