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Anonymous wrote:I just don’t think middle school and even high school kids are so damn special and exceptional that they cannot survive if there are *gasp* unprepared students in their classes. It’s high school for god sake, not a PhD program. Maybe I’m too laid back for this area. If equity means admitting some kids mostly because of their race and giving them a trial by fire chance to better prepared for college, I am okay with that. If they don’t like the challenge they’ll leave TJ.
Ha ha ha! You ARE too laid back for this area. I know several kids that got into TJ through the competitive process and couldn't run away fast enough after the 1st year with terrible grades. Think about it. Suppose you are a black kid, extremely smart and your parents are aware of the opportunities that are possible for someone like you. You go to base school - play a sport (assuming you are into it), time for other ECs, have a girlfriend, party, etc and still make great grades and can literally walk into any top college. You go to TJ, it's a LOT of hard work in every subject. starting with day 1 of summer school before freshman year. There are 100s of highly motivated, driven and likely smarter kids than you and you will get creamed unless you are a super-genius (in which case you'd have gotten in anyways). Why would you do that? I suspect a lot of the aware URM families are doing just that. Letting someone in just because they are URM is a bad idea for the kid.
A lot of White families do that too.. It's way easier to get into a good college from a base HS than from TJ. Pretty much every white person is talking down on "prepping" and "asian culture" in the APP thread. Move over to the college forum and you will see that every one of them has a master plan - Kids who spent early school years focusing on fencing, lacrosse, crew, playing the harp or spending tons of money to train in a sport. Kids going to private high school because those schools have "connected" counselors, kids with a plan for grad school (it's actually the parents but it's OK when you are white), etc.
They don't like the fact that they have to compete and lose at TJ and choose not to go. They would love to have low performing kids at TJ so they can look good. Don't fall for that.
So, what's the point of all this? Kids going to TJ on a "quota" will be gone after the first year.. that too, badly wounded. As many others have pointed out, why not find such kids, encourage them to study/prep (or whatever it takes to get them on the same footing as the other kids) and help them win? Why continue to foster the mindset that they need a handout? Intelligence is equally distributed across all ethnicities so there are equally smart URM kids as a % of the population as there are Asian or White kids.