How many men would stay w/o sex

[Anonymous]

Life has a way of humbling you, at least it did me. I’m (a DW) staying with little/no sex, because I love DH and life is complicated. I was also a real hardliner on the question of “outsourcing” physical AND emotional intimacy and now I don’t see it so black and white. I honestly don’t know what I would do if my spouse cheated. I guess I would try to understand why and what happened before automatically concluding he was an ass who should be thrown out immediately (my previous stance).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Life has a way of humbling you, at least it did me. I’m (a DW) staying with little/no sex, because I love DH and life is complicated. I was also a real hardliner on the question of “outsourcing” physical AND emotional intimacy and now I don’t see it so black and white. I honestly don’t know what I would do if my spouse cheated. I guess I would try to understand why and what happened before automatically concluding he was an ass who should be thrown out immediately (my previous stance).

Who’s the one withholding sex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband is terrible at sex, all I can say is that's not the reason I'm staying.

LOL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We've had sex twice in the past 4 years (on consecutive days, 2 years ago). I would like it multiple times per week, but she refuses for one baffling reason after another. Every day, I think about leaving, having an affair, or hiring an escort, but I haven't.

One day you will crack and do it. Your only regret will be that you didn't do it years earlier. Don't waste more years in that situation. Fix it, or take the next step.