What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Im a woman,& That I fantazize about women, & really have been since I was 7 yrs old, but have hidden it for over 20yrs.

I'm sorry. You shouldn't have to hide it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:+1, PP. I can't imagine needing a vibrator to get off with my spouse. How pathetic.

If your husband is small, and won't use his tongue, and you get sick of manual ....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:+1, PP. I can't imagine needing a vibrator to get off with my spouse. How pathetic.

If your husband is small, and won't use his tongue, and you get sick of manual ....

Another poster here. My wife doesn't really like oral and doesn't O via PIV. I'm well endowed, have good stamina and pay close attention to her to make sure she's having a good time but some women need that extra help. We use a vibe every session in doggy to get her off. There's zero shame in doing what it takes to satisfy your partner. It keeps her coming back multiple times per week after 15 years.

[Anonymous]

You are celibate and I am monogamous.

[Anonymous]

She has the best butt in yoga pants but rarely wears it around me. I do want pictures of it for when we are old. But no way?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She has the best butt in yoga pants but rarely wears it around me. I do want pictures of it for when we are old. But no way?

Thats why I take pics - for posterior posterity! I got busted this weekend though. It was awkward.

[Anonymous]

I hate your family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are celibate and I am monogamous.

So glad you found an AP worth being monogamous for.

[Anonymous]

I am addicted to DH. Either that or I am head over heals in love and lust with him.

I won't tell him that because I don't want him to know that he can get away with pretty much anything as far as I am concerned.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am addicted to DH. Either that or I am head over heals in love and lust with him.

I won't tell him that because I don't want him to know that he can get away with pretty much anything as far as I am concerned.

How long have you been married?

[Anonymous]

That I am so angry over your failure to be more of a partner to me in marriage and life that I am revolted by the idea of having sex with you, cuddling you or even kissing you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That I am so angry over your failure to be more of a partner to me in marriage and life that I am revolted by the idea of having sex with you, cuddling you or even kissing you.

Ummmmm, honey. Is that you?


I'm just never good enough.

[Anonymous]

I am so sorry that I lied to you. I loved you from the start, and was just afraid if you knew I was an uneducated poor beaten kid from a rough neighborhood that you could never love me. I was afraid of losing something before I had a chance for you to know me.

As a result, the world you thought you knew was flipped upside down, and our relationship has never been the same. Despite children being born after, despite all we have overcome, all we have conquered, all we have accomplished, it's just still not the same.

I married you for many reasons, most of which have become the same reasons I would now be ok with divorce. Sex was great, and I thought your lifestyle and history of promiscuous behavior and open desires for sex would lead to a fulfilling sex life. Wow was I wrong. Either I turned you off or you got your fill before me or you just never gave me another chance. I loved that you would try new things, get outside your comfort zone for me, argue with me, love me for me and love how much I loved my family. Now all of those things have changed, and they are the reasons I find myself wanting again.

Would you love me if I was gone? Would you rather I find sex and romance elsewhere?

You are beautiful. Despite what you see yourself as, you are desirable and sexy. You make me excited every time I think of you.

Would you love our kids more if I was not their mother? Would you want to celebrate with me or go out with me or would you love me more if I was more educated and from a better family?

Most of all. I want you to now I miss you. And if I ever get to the point that I even miss the idea of us and give up hope that can return, I think we must accept our reality and make major changes.