What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?

[Anonymous]

Not something to be hurtful, but would like to get off your chest but won't say out of fear of scorn or ridicule or rejection. Or maybe because after saying it things would never be the same.

[Anonymous]

I still have an eating disorder.

[Anonymous]

I know that he cheated at some point.....I can't 100% prove it but know deep down he did...and when it was over, was back to his old, loving self, coming home, etc., but not sure it's worth bringing that up to rock/ruin what's now good again.

[Anonymous]

I read his emails to his ex girlfriend that he left me for at the start of our relationship.

[Anonymous]

Honey, I've always fantasized about sleeping with your sister. Do you mind if I call you Wendy the next time we do it?

[Anonymous]

That I wish he'd lose the weight and that it impacts how attracted I am to him.

[Anonymous]

You haven't given me an orgasm in 15 years. Your weight is a real turnoff; your laziness and lack of creativity even more so. I'm not sure I want to stay married to you after the kids leave.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That I wish he'd lose the weight and that it impacts how attracted I am to him.

+1

[Anonymous]

I wish he would take his diet seriously and lose the weight. I still think he's attractive, but I know that he would feel healthier and more confident if he was 20 pounds thinner. The confidence is what's sexiest, and those 20 pounds are hindering it.

[Anonymous]

I wish he would get serious about losing 20 pounds. It's not an attraction thing (he has been carrying the extra weight the whole time I have known him), but for health. I am scared that he won't be around as long as I want him to be.

[Anonymous]

I wish he had a bigger penis and generally better in bed. I suspect he knows i feel this way but would love to just be able to gt it off my chest and say it out loud.

[Anonymous]

That I have given up nagging him about brushing his teeth, but it doesn't mean his breath has improved. It just means I can't stand talking about it anymore. Sigh. Why can't a grown man brush his teeth?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That I have given up nagging him about brushing his teeth, but it doesn't mean his breath has improved. It just means I can't stand talking about it anymore. Sigh. Why can't a grown man brush his teeth?

UGH. There are two men like this? My husband is the same. Unbelievably disgusting and annoying.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That I have given up nagging him about brushing his teeth, but it doesn't mean his breath has improved. It just means I can't stand talking about it anymore. Sigh. Why can't a grown man brush his teeth?

UGH. There are two men like this? My husband is the same. Unbelievably disgusting and annoying.

Did you know this about them before you married?

[Anonymous]

That I have no intention of growing into my 70's and 80's and having the same amount of sex then that I am right now, which is NONE.

WE ARE NOT 80, STOP ACTING LIKE WE ARE.

To further clarify, I don't expect to be banging when we're 80, I want us to enjoy being 39 and stop acting like we're in a nursing home when we turn out the lights.