Annoying things people make their whole personality

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Anonymous wrote:So in conclusion, the entire world is annoying and anyone who has a passion, interest,.or concern about something and talks about it a lot is annoying.

Sounds like it. What do all the posters here do in their spare time? Maybe dcum posting is a whole personality.

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Anonymous wrote:Military wives.

Hard disagree. Life circumstances made it so that I was exposed to military culture/life intimately without being in the military. Military wives have to pack up and move their entire families every 2-3 years, immediately adapt to the new location/culture (and help their kids assimilate), make new friends, find new resources, and generally make up the lifeblood of base activities and community, ALL with an embarrassingly small amount of support. The nature of their husband's career make it so that they themselves are effectually prevented from developing their own careers, but their husbands and kids would be lost without them as a governing force.

I have more respect for military spouses than nearly any other group.

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I was stunned to see military wives listed here. That person has no clue. None at all. I'm not a military spouse but have lived on a military base. People are clueless about how hard it is.

To be fair, there are some of "those" military spouses who are all about the clout of their husbands title and throwing that around socially. I don't think the PP was referring to the typical military spouse.

Some just are just more into it than others and it does consume their identity. I appreciate PPs responses because it is hard and truthfully, I hated it and regret it. I would not make the same choice again. But I also didn’t revolve my life around the role of spouse “team” or base life. Some women (in particular) love to do all the volunteering and entertaining and office support stuff. Being a rank/role “wife” is their identity. It has its part and it makes a difference to some people. I always resented that so many liberties were taken with my time and energy. Some of these women are putting in full time hours for zero money and it’s wrong. We gave up SO much money and so many opportunities over the years by me not working and not having a house that I actually can’t stand to be “thanked for my sacrifices “ because people have NO idea how much we screwed ourselves financially and personally for that damn career. It was stupid. We all suffered for nothing.

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Anonymous wrote:So in conclusion, the entire world is annoying and anyone who has a passion, interest,.or concern about something and talks about it a lot is annoying.

Sounds like it. What do all the posters here do in their spare time? Maybe dcum posting is a whole personality.

If you don’t understand the thread you can skip it

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Anonymous wrote:Military wives.

Hard disagree. Life circumstances made it so that I was exposed to military culture/life intimately without being in the military. Military wives have to pack up and move their entire families every 2-3 years, immediately adapt to the new location/culture (and help their kids assimilate), make new friends, find new resources, and generally make up the lifeblood of base activities and community, ALL with an embarrassingly small amount of support. The nature of their husband's career make it so that they themselves are effectually prevented from developing their own careers, but their husbands and kids would be lost without them as a governing force.

I have more respect for military spouses than nearly any other group.

+1

+100

I was stunned to see military wives listed here. That person has no clue. None at all. I'm not a military spouse but have lived on a military base. People are clueless about how hard it is.

To be fair, there are some of "those" military spouses who are all about the clout of their husbands title and throwing that around socially. I don't think the PP was referring to the typical military spouse.

Some just are just more into it than others and it does consume their identity. I appreciate PPs responses because it is hard and truthfully, I hated it and regret it. I would not make the same choice again. But I also didn’t revolve my life around the role of spouse “team” or base life. Some women (in particular) love to do all the volunteering and entertaining and office support stuff. Being a rank/role “wife” is their identity. It has its part and it makes a difference to some people. I always resented that so many liberties were taken with my time and energy. Some of these women are putting in full time hours for zero money and it’s wrong. We gave up SO much money and so many opportunities over the years by me not working and not having a house that I actually can’t stand to be “thanked for my sacrifices “ because people have NO idea how much we screwed ourselves financially and personally for that damn career. It was stupid. We all suffered for nothing.

Still I thank you for sticking with it even though you hated the experience. As you unfortunately found out, being a military wife is not for everyone - it takes a unique, unselfish person that many just cannot hack.

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Anonymous wrote:Loving Disney
Newlyweds

I can't believe this took that many pages!

I get it - you like going to Disney. No, I don't want your travel tips.

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Anonymous wrote:Loving Disney
Newlyweds

You mean Disney Adults? Childless 35-year-olds that wear Winnie the Pooh gear? Yeah, weird.

No, any adult obsessed with Disney. I don't care if you have kids. It's still a theme park, not a way of life.

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Anonymous wrote:Being liberal / democrat

This. And I'm a liberal but I don't need to work it into every single conversation. I have friends who bring it up when we're trying to decide where to go eat. Sometimes you can give your political agenda a rest, you know? And frankly, if you really cared that much, you'd do something about it.

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Anonymous wrote:Religious people. I can think of 2 particular religions - one in my family but won't say for fear of offending anyone.

But seriously what you do or don't do in terms of practice, praying, and observing holidays is between you and the higher power. You don't need to know what I do and then sit and criticize because you don't think it's enough or you don't think I'm doing it right and your way of practice and observance is more correct - because frankly you aren't the authority here.

This dynamic exists in my Catholic family - vocal judgment and comments about who is a "good Catholic".

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Anonymous wrote:Wife swapping
Nudism

lol these are things I want to know up front.

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Anonymous wrote:Being "not like other girls"

Or being a "guy's girl"

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Religion. My sister says she is with god but hates my gay son. FU.

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Anonymous wrote:Oooh I’m going to go with the opposite of the parent who makes parenting their whole identity and go with the childfree contingent they can not stop talking about how much they dislike kids and how happy they are not to have them. It’s a rare breed but, man, when you meet one you’ll wish you hadn’t

I was going to say childless people. I don't make having children my identity, so I'm not interested in hearing how you made not having kids yours.

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Anonymous wrote:Equestrians

I just spit out my water. I'm an equestrian but I don't really talk about it to anyone other than my fellow equestrians. I'll try to be more careful...

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Anonymous wrote:Being liberal / democrat

This. And I'm a liberal but I don't need to work it into every single conversation. I have friends who bring it up when we're trying to decide where to go eat. Sometimes you can give your political agenda a rest, you know? And frankly, if you really cared that much, you'd do something about it.

It's not even working it into every conversation - it's the endless virtue signaling that liberal democrats engage in.

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Anonymous wrote:Soccer moms (also football/baseball/basketball/lacrosse/cheer moms)

Parents where the kids sport dominates their entire family’s lives, and it’s all they talk about and can relate to. Very one-dimensional .

+1. I’ve actually lost friends to the sports culture. They are completely obsessed; it’s the only thing they care about (sometimes even over school!) and their kids are not collegiate level athletes. Then their kids go to college, that culture/social group dissolves, and they want to be BFFs with their pre-sports friends again. No thanks, the rest of us moved on. I completely respect this meant a lot to you, but you cannot expect your other friends to sit on the sidelines for 4-6 years.

...and watch your sub-par child play their sport. Finished it for you.

I'm happy for you that your kid enjoys lacrosse and you like watching his games. But he's 10. The whole team is 10. They all basically suck. It is not remotely entertaining to watch.