Single women and married men

[Anonymous]

Why are there so many single women in DC having affairs with married dudes? I don't care how young he looks or how close in age he is to you. If he's married hes off limits. Stop texting him and flirting because that just leads to sex.

[Anonymous]

Look, many of my friends are single and seeing married men. It's the low hanging fruit. These men are so grateful for sex and some kind words.....it's just sad.

[Anonymous]

The sex is really hot cuz the men are tied of fucking shrewish hags. What's not to like?

[Anonymous]

Even as a married woman, I would agree that's why married guys are so grateful

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why are there so many single women in DC having affairs with married dudes? I don't care how young he looks or how close in age he is to you. If he's married hes off limits. Stop texting him and flirting because that just leads to sex.

Marriage vows are between the partners in the marriage. The single person who is involved did not make vows. Is it tacky and classless? Yes it is. Is it the responsibility of the single men and women to honor the cheaters marriage vows that they were not party to? Nope.

[Anonymous]

Being a hag and bitchy is not honoring the marriage vow, either.

[Anonymous]

Really? Most single women I know would never waste a second dating a married guy.
Every married guy I know who is having an affair is doing it with an unhappily married woman

[Anonymous]

Why focus on the woman here? She didn't take the vow of monogamy. Focus on the husbands.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Even as a married woman, I would agree that's why married guys are so grateful

+1000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Really? Most single women I know would never waste a second dating a married guy.
Every married guy I know who is having an affair is doing it with an unhappily married woman

Of course they are going to say they wouldn't ever be with a married guy. What single woman, who's often thinking of her Dream Wedding and 2.1 kids or on continuing her Sex and the City lifestyle (yeah, I'm stereotyping), is going to say "Yeah, I think being a mistress sounds like the right idea!"

This resolve fizzles the moment they meet a married guy that hits the right button -- and it needn't necessarily be him being hot/rich (tho' it helps!)

... you know, like a lot of other resolves.

"When the two people who thus discover that they are on the same secret road are of different sexes, the friendship which a rises between them will very easily pass - may pass in the first half-hour - into erotic love. Indeed, unless they are physically repulsive to each other or unless one or both already loves elsewhere, it is almost certain to do so sooner or later."
--CS Lewis, The Four Loves

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Really? Most single women I know would never waste a second dating a married guy.
Every married guy I know who is having an affair is doing it with an unhappily married woman

Of course they are going to say they wouldn't ever be with a married guy. What single woman, who's often thinking of her Dream Wedding and 2.1 kids or on continuing her Sex and the City lifestyle (yeah, I'm stereotyping), is going to say "Yeah, I think being a mistress sounds like the right idea!"

This resolve fizzles the moment they meet a married guy that hits the right button -- and it needn't necessarily be him being hot/rich (tho' it helps!)

... you know, like a lot of other resolves.

"When the two people who thus discover that they are on the same secret road are of different sexes, the friendship which a rises between them will very easily pass - may pass in the first half-hour - into erotic love. Indeed, unless they are physically repulsive to each other or unless one or both already loves elsewhere, it is almost certain to do so sooner or later."
--CS Lewis, The Four Loves

Im not going by what my single friends (and I, since I'm single) say. I'm going by what they DO. We want to get married. A married guy is already married and probably not going to leave his wife. Even if he does, then we're married to a cheater. So basically it's about sex. So why would we get involved with a married guy? Women can find men to have sex with pretty easily, there are plenty of single guys around to sleep with (Now finding a relationship is another thing). I am also going by the fact that of the four women I know who are having an affair with a married guy, they are ALL married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Look, many of my friends are single and seeing married men. It's the low hanging fruit. These men are so grateful for sex and some kind words.....it's just sad.

Yup...pretty much. LOL

[Anonymous]

Despite what a lot of women on this board will tell you, the married people that I know that are having affairs are doing it because their spouses won't sleep with them and are emotionally neglectful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Despite what a lot of women on this board will tell you, the married people that I know that are having affairs are doing it because their spouses won't sleep with them and are emotionally neglectful.

Yep. Lots and lots of DCUM soul sucking, zombie, sexless, and loveless marriages hanging on by a thread for "the sake of the kids".
No question.

[Anonymous]

The first time I fucked a married man, he cried like a baby.