Single women and married men

[Anonymous]

I love reading about folks making judgements on marriages when they themselves have never been married or had kids. Every situation is different. This touches a nerve with me because my H cheated on because only because he could get away with it without me knowing, so he said in therapy, and I found out anyway. I am not a shrewish hag and was definitely putting out. Sucks sucks sucks. I picked a bad one. He's a damn good liar.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why are there so many single women in DC having affairs with married dudes? I don't care how young he looks or how close in age he is to you. If he's married hes off limits. Stop texting him and flirting because that just leads to sex.

Tell us more bitter hag wife

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love reading about folks making judgements on marriages when they themselves have never been married or had kids. Every situation is different. This touches a nerve with me because my H cheated on because only because he could get away with it without me knowing, so he said in therapy, and I found out anyway. I am not a shrewish hag and was definitely putting out. Sucks sucks sucks. I picked a bad one. He's a damn good liar.

I agree. Cheating is less about bad marriages and more about a personal lack of integrity or character. It is someone who is okay with lying, cheating, deceiving, betraying and hurting those they say they love. If someone cheats, that is because of the person they are, and the state of the marriage is secondary to the moral code or lack thereof that they use to guide their actions. They might use their marital problems as an excuse or as a way to rationalize what they did or even to try and blame the other person and make it their fault - but all those tactics are pretty common in people having affairs as they lack integrity and aren't likely to be honest about their own shortcomings, and they lean towards being narcissistic (I want what I want and I'll have it regardless of who it hurts).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love reading about folks making judgements on marriages when they themselves have never been married or had kids. Every situation is different. This touches a nerve with me because my H cheated on because only because he could get away with it without me knowing, so he said in therapy, and I found out anyway. I am not a shrewish hag and was definitely putting out. Sucks sucks sucks. I picked a bad one. He's a damn good liar.

All men who can cheat do. It is what it is and you stayed. Next time who's the fool?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Really? Most single women I know would never waste a second dating a married guy.
Every married guy I know who is having an affair is doing it with an unhappily married woman

This or lying three their fucking teeth

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Really? Most single women I know would never waste a second dating a married guy.
Every married guy I know who is having an affair is doing it with an unhappily married woman

This or lying three their fucking teeth

**through

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love reading about folks making judgements on marriages when they themselves have never been married or had kids. Every situation is different. This touches a nerve with me because my H cheated on because only because he could get away with it without me knowing, so he said in therapy, and I found out anyway. I am not a shrewish hag and was definitely putting out. Sucks sucks sucks. I picked a bad one. He's a damn good liar.

All men who can cheat do. It is what it is and you stayed. Next time who's the fool?

You are for being such a mean troll. Not the PP. I just think you're full of B.S.

[Anonymous]

Hey, he told me they were separated/only staying together until the kids finish school/said she was a shrewish, fat bitch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love reading about folks making judgements on marriages when they themselves have never been married or had kids. Every situation is different. This touches a nerve with me because my H cheated on because only because he could get away with it without me knowing, so he said in therapy, and I found out anyway. I am not a shrewish hag and was definitely putting out. Sucks sucks sucks. I picked a bad one. He's a damn good liar.

What are the stats on this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hey, he told me they were separated/only staying together until the kids finish school/said she was a shrewish, fat bitch.

Then he was a lying CPOS -- read Dan Savage! Also, vilifying the wife shouldn't have motivated you to sleep with him. Sounds like you need therapy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hey, he told me they were separated/only staying together until the kids finish school/said she was a shrewish, fat bitch.

Duh what else is he going to tell you? You sound dumb.

[Anonymous]

Sex with married guys is sooo good. I'm sorry. But yeah it's kind of amazing. They are so deprived and horny and its super passionate. If you're not going to make him happy, I will.

[Anonymous]

I have a friend from college who is a serial cheater. I hold many of his secrets an would never tell his wife but even I cringe at some of his dalliances. The ironic thing is that his Facebook pic is of him and her and he posts tons of pics of them doing fun stuff, going on vacations, dinner etc. if you were to judge his life based on Facebook you'd think they were that annoying couple that are so in love. She is also much hotter than any woman he could cheat on her with. Not even close. Yet I bet we was lying in his girlfriend's bed while uploading his pics. I can't figure it out.

[Anonymous]

Anyone who believes what a married cheating person says is dumber than a bag of rocks. You already know the guy is a liar and a cheat and you are surprised when you find out he is lying to you...

Single women being with a married guy is pretty much admission that you can't get anyone except the scum at the bottom of the pond. I figure either they are just as skanky and pathetic as the guy or they have major self-esteem issues that make them think that no man with self-respect would go for them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sex with married guys is sooo good. I'm sorry. But yeah it's kind of amazing. They are so deprived and horny and its super passionate. If you're not going to make him happy, I will.

Hey Everybody: this poster is obviously a (pathetically lonely) guy ... who hasn't been touched by a woman in this century and is probably physically enjoying this thread. Get off elsewhere, troll.