Single women and married men

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I love reading about folks making judgements on marriages when they themselves have never been married or had kids. Every situation is different. This touches a nerve with me because my H cheated on because only because he could get away with it without me knowing, so he said in therapy, and I found out anyway. I am not a shrewish hag and was definitely putting out. Sucks sucks sucks. I picked a bad one. He's a damn good liar.

All men who can cheat do. It is what it is and you stayed. Next time who's the fool?

You are for being such a mean troll. Not the PP. I just think you're full of B.S.

Thanks, we have a kid so I'm figuring out what to do.

[Anonymous]

I am single, and have slept with umm, a few.... married men. For me, it is fun, exciting, and it is a thrill. It is a turn on to do something so discreetly, with no emotional ties. It is just a good fuck. For the men, I notice that most are just truly unhappy. It is the usual, her sex drive changed after kids, she is not willing to spice things up, cheaper to keep her, she is not attractive anymore and etc. Do I feel bad about it? Not at all...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love reading about folks making judgements on marriages when they themselves have never been married or had kids. Every situation is different. This touches a nerve with me because my H cheated on because only because he could get away with it without me knowing, so he said in therapy, and I found out anyway. I am not a shrewish hag and was definitely putting out. Sucks sucks sucks. I picked a bad one. He's a damn good liar.

I agree. Cheating is less about bad marriages and more about a personal lack of integrity or character. It is someone who is okay with lying, cheating, deceiving, betraying and hurting those they say they love. If someone cheats, that is because of the person they are, and the state of the marriage is secondary to the moral code or lack thereof that they use to guide their actions. They might use their marital problems as an excuse or as a way to rationalize what they did or even to try and blame the other person and make it their fault - but all those tactics are pretty common in people having affairs as they lack integrity and aren't likely to be honest about their own shortcomings, and they lean towards being narcissistic (I want what I want and I'll have it regardless of who it hurts).

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hey, he told me they were separated/only staying together until the kids finish school/said she was a shrewish, fat bitch.

Seems like he has no respect for woman if he can't even be respectful to the mother of his kids. You picked a good one to cheat with, quite the character.

[Anonymous]

How is it a thrill to have sex with a sad, unhappy man? That sounds pathetic. I don't know but a hot, happy, satisfied guy sounds more attractive to me. Having sex with a loser married guy seems like shooting fish in a barrel. If I were you, I would aim higher.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sex with married guys is sooo good. I'm sorry. But yeah it's kind of amazing. They are so deprived and horny and its super passionate. If you're not going to make him happy, I will.

Hey Everybody: this poster is obviously a (pathetically lonely) guy ... who hasn't been touched by a woman in this century and is probably physically enjoying this thread. Get off elsewhere, troll.

[b]

Hahaha I'm actually a woman in my 30's. Jeff can confirm that I'm not a troll. I'm just honest!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love reading about folks making judgements on marriages when they themselves have never been married or had kids. Every situation is different. This touches a nerve with me because my H cheated on because only because he could get away with it without me knowing, so he said in therapy, and I found out anyway. I am not a shrewish hag and was definitely putting out. Sucks sucks sucks. I picked a bad one. He's a damn good liar.

All men who can cheat do. It is what it is and you stayed. Next time who's the fool?

You are for being such a mean troll. Not the PP. I just think you're full of B.S.

Not mean. Not trolling. It's the truth. Sorry if you don't like it. He cheated, he still has happy home maker, penalty few bucks to a therapist. He's probably already fucking around again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sex with married guys is sooo good. I'm sorry. But yeah it's kind of amazing. They are so deprived and horny and its super passionate. If you're not going to make him happy, I will.

Hey Everybody: this poster is obviously a (pathetically lonely) guy ... who hasn't been touched by a woman in this century and is probably physically enjoying this thread. Get off elsewhere, troll.

[b]

Hahaha I'm actually a woman in my 30's. Jeff can confirm that I'm not a troll. I'm just honest!

Well you are confused because sex with married men is still just sex

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hey, he told me they were separated/only staying together until the kids finish school/said she was a shrewish, fat bitch.

Then he was a lying CPOS -- read Dan Savage! Also, vilifying the wife shouldn't have motivated you to sleep with him. Sounds like you need therapy.

Sounds like you need to get laid

[Anonymous]

I think you're confused, I never said it was more than just sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sex with married guys is sooo good. I'm sorry. But yeah it's kind of amazing. They are so deprived and horny and its super passionate. If you're not going to make him happy, I will.

Hey Everybody: this poster is obviously a (pathetically lonely) guy ... who hasn't been touched by a woman in this century and is probably physically enjoying this thread. Get off elsewhere, troll.

[b]

Hahaha I'm actually a woman in my 30's. Jeff can confirm that I'm not a troll. I'm just honest!

Interesting..... It an open available vagina - it's exactly because of that he is super horny passionate. If you're in it strictly for the sex then it's all good. But if you sit around crying in your coach bag that you can find a man, well, it's because of your lack of self esteem/cheaply made morals/no love of self/no self-actualization.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sex with married guys is sooo good. I'm sorry. But yeah it's kind of amazing. They are so deprived and horny and its super passionate. If you're not going to make him happy, I will.

Hey Everybody: this poster is obviously a (pathetically lonely) guy ... who hasn't been touched by a woman in this century and is probably physically enjoying this thread. Get off elsewhere, troll.

[b]

Hahaha I'm actually a woman in my 30's. Jeff can confirm that I'm not a troll. I'm just honest!

Interesting..... It an open available vagina - it's exactly because of that he is super horny passionate. If you're in it strictly for the sex then it's all good. But if you sit around crying in your coach bag that you can find a man, well, it's because of your lack of self esteem/cheaply made morals/no love of self/no self-actualization.

*cant find a man, not can.

[Anonymous]

Lol jealous poster above

[Anonymous]

Wow. I'm single. I've never slept with a married man, nor would I. Most of my single friends wouldn't consider it either. I only have one friend who has done that, to my knowledge.

That said, I don't tend to hang out with the severe dichotomy couples i.e. he works and can pretend to work late, while she does all of the household/kid stuff. Most people in my social circle don't have time for affairs, because they are both doing work/kid stuff all the time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How is it a thrill to have sex with a sad, unhappy man? That sounds pathetic. I don't know but a hot, happy, satisfied guy sounds more attractive to me. Having sex with a loser married guy seems like shooting fish in a barrel. If I were you, I would aim higher.

He is willing to put in more work to satisfy his lover. Lets be honest though, it's not just about sex for the woman, it's about the money and gifts too.