Things you secretly oppose, but don't want other people to know:

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, what do you think should happen to orphaned babies?

OP here. I'm against adoption because of the corrupt system and how it all really boils down to baby-selling to the highest bidder.

OP, it sounds to me like you don't know very many adoptees or adoptive parents. Otherwise, I don't really think you'd use the term "highest bidder." I know our situation may not be common (though I know about 5 or 6 parents that had similar experiences), but in our case, we were looking to adopt and met a high school girl who was pregnant. She knew she could not raise the baby. She wanted absolutely no money from us. She was on her parents health plan so all medical was covered. She still lived with her parents so didn't need any financial support. We paid around $5000 to a private attorney who handled all the paperwork.

She has been a huge part of our child's life. She visited often when he was a baby and came to every birthday party. She really is a big part of our family. She feels like an aunt to him. He's 10 now and she is still very involved. She recently got married and had a baby. She wanted us to visit and she got a great picture of our son, her newborn and her at the hospital.

I just wanted to relay that the adoption system (domestic, private at least) isn't all corruption and "selling babies to the highest bidder." Hopefully you can expand your world a little and learn something new today.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:
Blind allegiance to military members, like they didn't choose this as their job.

+1

+ 2

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Weddings

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The person opposed to epidurals isn't going to answer my question, is she?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Pierced baby ears, +1
Any jewelery on babies
circumcision

Just leave babies alone..... they are perfect.

This, but I'm not ashamed to admit it.

[Anonymous]

Cats sleeping with babies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here again. Forgot: Immigration (illegal or otherwise).

are you native american??? Because if you aren't, then you are pretty damned hypocritical.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am personally sick of the "troop love" everyone in the military is a hero sentiment. Let's face it 80% of those enlisted (not officers) would be flipping burgers if they did not have the military as an option. It is a glorified welfare system

THIS. My niece joined the Army because she couldn't hack it in COMMUNITY COLLEGE and was a lazy douche. She shipped out for basic training in her fatigues and while she was walking through the airport people started clapping and yelling and calling her a hero. It was the most ridiculous thing I've ever seen. The only heroic thing she's ever done was take the bus by herself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, what do you think should happen to orphaned babies?

OP here. I'm against adoption because of the corrupt system and how it all really boils down to baby-selling to the highest bidder.

That's not how all adoption works.

I know where you are coming from, but to be against all adoption is just cruel.

[Anonymous]

Sperm or egg donation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, what do you think should happen to orphaned babies?

OP here. I'm against adoption because of the corrupt system and how it all really boils down to baby-selling to the highest bidder.

OP, it sounds to me like you don't know very many adoptees or adoptive parents. Otherwise, I don't really think you'd use the term "highest bidder." I know our situation may not be common (though I know about 5 or 6 parents that had similar experiences), but in our case, we were looking to adopt and met a high school girl who was pregnant. She knew she could not raise the baby. She wanted absolutely no money from us. She was on her parents health plan so all medical was covered. She still lived with her parents so didn't need any financial support. We paid around $5000 to a private attorney who handled all the paperwork.

She has been a huge part of our child's life. She visited often when he was a baby and came to every birthday party. She really is a big part of our family. She feels like an aunt to him. He's 10 now and she is still very involved. She recently got married and had a baby. She wanted us to visit and she got a great picture of our son, her newborn and her at the hospital.

I just wanted to relay that the adoption system (domestic, private at least) isn't all corruption and "selling babies to the highest bidder." Hopefully you can expand your world a little and learn something new today.

You are correct; your situation is NOT common when it comes to adoption. Glad it worked out for you, though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Moms who could easily afford to stay at home, but choose to work full time and pay someone else to do the mothering for them.

+1

[Anonymous]

People who regularly feed their children - infants, toddlers, or otherwise, those pre-packaged food pouch things.

One in a while, ok. But all the time? I secretly judge you harshly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here again. Forgot: Immigration (illegal or otherwise).

are you native american??? Because if you aren't, then you are pretty damned hypocritical.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here again. Forgot: Immigration (illegal or otherwise).

are you native american??? Because if you aren't, then you are pretty damned hypocritical.

+1

Try a new line. This one is waaaaaaaay played out.