I think I’m going to have to contact my husband’s affair partner

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am all about revenge.

Do it OP. But be strategic. Do your homework and hurt her commensurate with how she hurt you.

Even skanky OWs have someone in their life who would think badly of them for their cheating ways... if they knew. Make sure they do.

And no one I know would support the OW. They won't think your crazy. That is stupid OW garbage talk.

You sound unhinged. Be careful. People like you will result in a police report for a potential harassment charge if it happens again. Maybe libel and defamation of character.

It’s not libel or defamation if what is stated is true. If she’s cheating with married men: that’s a fact. Stick to the facts and you won’t be libel.

OW on here are always threatening that crap and restraining order without knowing the bar for it.

Sure, but threatening to destroy someone’s reputation, showing up at their work, contacting all of their family members, and sending their employer an email about how their company funded an affair are all grounds for a harassement charge, which is a criminal offence.

Yep. OW did all of those things. Restraining order

Bunny boilers are real. Fatal Attraction should be required viewing for all before considering stepping out.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So is this one of the threads Jeff was referring to that has been posted by the same woman in the last few days? Referenced in the post he just locked down about OP’s husband telling his AP that OP is revolting?

OP, if that is you, all I can say is there is no way out of this mess until you get tired enough of mistreatment and tired enough of feeling the way you feel now. Then and only then will you feel better. I really do wish you the best. It’s not fun being lost like this.

+1

I'd love for the OW to get hit by Karma, but in this case OP is trying to make herself feel better any way but the only way that would actually work: leaving her husband. Nothing else is going to scratch that itch, OP.

Bingo !!!!

In my triangle it was the DH who got hit by karma. Be careful what you wish for.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am all about revenge.

Do it OP. But be strategic. Do your homework and hurt her commensurate with how she hurt you.

Even skanky OWs have someone in their life who would think badly of them for their cheating ways... if they knew. Make sure they do.

And no one I know would support the OW. They won't think your crazy. That is stupid OW garbage talk.

You sound unhinged. Be careful. People like you will result in a police report for a potential harassment charge if it happens again. Maybe libel and defamation of character.

Yeah none of this is illegal. If you do it right.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So is this one of the threads Jeff was referring to that has been posted by the same woman in the last few days? Referenced in the post he just locked down about OP’s husband telling his AP that OP is revolting?

OP, if that is you, all I can say is there is no way out of this mess until you get tired enough of mistreatment and tired enough of feeling the way you feel now. Then and only then will you feel better. I really do wish you the best. It’s not fun being lost like this.

+1

I'd love for the OW to get hit by Karma, but in this case OP is trying to make herself feel better any way but the only way that would actually work: leaving her husband. Nothing else is going to scratch that itch, OP.

Bingo !!!!

In my triangle it was the DH who got hit by karma. Be careful what you wish for.

Oh really. What happened to him?

[Anonymous]

Oh, don’t go to the other woman’s house. I just emailed her to tell her I had the stuff she left in the bed when she fled my house. cc’d her husband.

I have no idea how it turned out, but it did what I needed it to do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh, don’t go to the other woman’s house. I just emailed her to tell her I had the stuff she left in the bed when she fled my house. cc’d her husband.

I have no idea how it turned out, but it did what I needed it to do.

She was in your bed? Gross. I wouldn’t want to sleep there anymore. That’s such a violation to bring an OW/OM into the family home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What would she get? He dropped her the minute I discovered it and has been completely no contact, doing everything he can to show remorse, work on marriage, etc. this is for me…

No it is for your ego

She didn’t make him cheat

He is the problem blaming her does nothing

Until you figure that out your marriage has no hope

He will cheat again

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am all about revenge.

Do it OP. But be strategic. Do your homework and hurt her commensurate with how she hurt you.

Even skanky OWs have someone in their life who would think badly of them for their cheating ways... if they knew. Make sure they do.

And no one I know would support the OW. They won't think your crazy. That is stupid OW garbage talk.

You sound unhinged. Be careful. People like you will result in a police report for a potential harassment charge if it happens again. Maybe libel and defamation of character.

Yeah none of this is illegal. If you do it right.

Okay, bunny boiler.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If you must contact her, share the name of a good therapist or self-esteem coach and tell her the person really helped heal a single friend whose life was a mess. That would be savage.

Yes, please say this as the wife that took back her chaeting husband... to the person he cheated on her with.

As a former AP, I would laugh my hot a$$ off if one of you crusty old wives said something like that to me. Savage, indeed.

OP, I hope you read this. Trash doesn’t care if you call them trash. Don’t stoop to her level.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you must contact her, share the name of a good therapist or self-esteem coach and tell her the person really helped heal a single friend whose life was a mess. That would be savage.

Yes, please say this as the wife that took back her chaeting husband... to the person he cheated on her with.

As a former AP, I would laugh my hot a$$ off if one of you crusty old wives said something like that to me. Savage, indeed.

OP, I hope you read this. Trash doesn’t care if you call them trash. Don’t stoop to her level.

I think the Jerry Springer show is looking for a replacement host. If Stormy Daniels isn’t free maybe the PP can shoot her shot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you must contact her, share the name of a good therapist or self-esteem coach and tell her the person really helped heal a single friend whose life was a mess. That would be savage.

Yes, please say this as the wife that took back her chaeting husband... to the person he cheated on her with.

As a former AP, I would laugh my hot a$$ off if one of you crusty old wives said something like that to me. Savage, indeed.

OP, I hope you read this. Trash doesn’t care if you call them trash. Don’t stoop to her level.

I think the Jerry Springer show is looking for a replacement host. If Stormy Daniels isn’t free maybe the PP can shoot her shot.

Trashy is cheating on your husband or “dating” married men, being on only fans or being a sugar baby.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve posted before and I know that tge overwhelming advice is not to, but I am really thinking I have to or it’s going to bother me forever. Anyone do this and glad they did?

Yes he’s the one I hold accountable, but it’s a matter of pride or something deep in me that feels this need so strongly.

Haven’t read the pages of responses. What outcome are you hoping for OP? Are you likely to get it?

[Anonymous]

I would love APs wife to call me. So many things I’d love to tell her about. He’s been lying to her (and me) for years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh, don’t go to the other woman’s house. I just emailed her to tell her I had the stuff she left in the bed when she fled my house. cc’d her husband.

I have no idea how it turned out, but it did what I needed it to do.

She was in your bed? Gross. I wouldn’t want to sleep there anymore. That’s such a violation to bring an OW/OM into the family home.

I think men actually get off on doing this for some reason. Like nanny nanny poo poo you can't control me, wife/mom, this is my house blah blah blah.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you must contact her, share the name of a good therapist or self-esteem coach and tell her the person really helped heal a single friend whose life was a mess. That would be savage.

Yes, please say this as the wife that took back her chaeting husband... to the person he cheated on her with.

As a former AP, I would laugh my hot a$$ off if one of you crusty old wives said something like that to me. Savage, indeed.

OP, I hope you read this. Trash doesn’t care if you call them trash. Don’t stoop to her level.

I think the Jerry Springer show is looking for a replacement host. If Stormy Daniels isn’t free maybe the PP can shoot her shot.

Stormy Daniels is a class act actually. That woman has serious balls and owns her life.