Ahhhhh found the Lafayette grandparent. No parents cannot unilaterally decide. If they want that they can homeschool or try private but no school system should exist solely to do the bidding of parents regardless of the child's best interest or the community as a whole. The public isn't making this an issue anyways, the Lafayette parents are. The only group of people trying to take away time and money to focus on this sole issue is them. |
Private should not exist to do the bidding of the parents, but in cases where a parent and teacher disagree, parents are on the hook for 18 years of childhood and the teacher is not. The parent should make the decision. A public option that can’t provide this modicum of flexibility shouldn’t exist. I may be anti-dictator but good riddance at these types of policies. |
You seem to be completely ignorant about how schools and medical diagnostics work, but I applaud your determination. The school and teachers are there to teach not to make medical and behavioral evaluations. Who would do them, anyways? The kindergarten teacher, the school nurse, the principal? They don’t have the education, training or licensing to do these diagnostics. Also schools can’t compel parents to produce medical records except in very narrow and well defined situations, and that’s all voluntary. There’s no basis for the school to decide the documentation is appropriate for a particular placement when they don’t have the training and knowledge to interpret the results. The Lafayette parents can just get any kind of generic evaluation and use it as justification for holding back. Almost certainly the school will fold. If not, hiring a layer to send them a formal letter that they are running afoul of Americans with disabilities act will do the trick. It’s cheaper than one year of private school. The parents should stick to their guns and push back and essentially be a pain to deal with. No principal will stick their neck on a fight they don’t have anything to gain from. |
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Redshirting was fine and nobody batted an eyelash until DEI came and said it inequitable and classist. As DEI wave is passing, in a year everyone will move on to something else and things will be back to redshirting being fine.
I am willing to bet that the Lafayette parents will get their way in the end. |
And this is why this is a metaphor for the rest of what is happening. Some well-intentioned person pushes a belief so far that it alienates people who generally want things like democracy. |
This is simply not true but keep blaming every thing you don't like on minorities. I'm sure it'll go great for you. |
Not PP. I didn’t think PP was blaming it on minorities. I think PP was blaming it on equity. |
I am a UMC white mom. I don’t think folks should be able to redshirt at will. It has nothing to do with equity and everything to do with needing to have a firm rule to create cohesive classes. Redshirting — or, more likely, retaining -/— with the support of the school for kid-specific developmental reasons? 100% fine. DC is a town of crazies and no age policy would mean 20 months’ spread of kids in each class. That’s not actually good for anyone. |
Its normally wealthier white do it, not minorities. In HS it creates a bigger divide as many classes are mixed with freshman to seniors. |
We were pushed to hold back. I said no and pushed them ahead. They did have SN but we got therapies and worked with them at home. No regrets and child is glad I didn't hold back as they are in the most advanced classes and the only one in their grade in the math class. Sounds like a bad teacher if they are saying they cannot manage their classroom. Kids will learn and need to be taught but also a proper preschool teaches that. I think the play based fail kids but not having structure. |
Yes so you do you and others will do themselves. For years, I’ve voted to increase my own taxes for the benefit of others, but with arguments like these, good riddance. |
What is a cohesive class? People of all ages mix in the workplace and in college. Somehow that’s a no-no for high school, and kids need to be within a narrow 12 moth age of each other otherwise bad things will happen. Not buying it. My kids friends are two-three years older and younger, tall and short, not really an issue at all. Parents know best if they want to redshirt or not, some kids need a little more time to get there. The really strict redshirting rules are stupid, how are they going to know what’s right for your child? I mean, if a parent is determined there’s not much the school district can do. You can do kindergarten and first grade in private, homeschooling for a year, retain and retake kindergarten for two years in public etc., or just push hard against the silly rules. If I thought it helped my child I’d do it. |
| If DCPS retains and allows students who are struggling academically to repeat their classes, this age divide would have been normalized and prevalent. However, this would also have created a societal stigma about failing that has the potential to improve the standards overall and push students to be more studious than the current status quo. |
The workplace is not a good argument in this case. There are maturity gaps here that do not exist in the same way when a 25 year old has to work with a 32 year old. But in HS there is a huge maturity gap between a 14 year old and a 17 year old. It is obvious and can create issues. |
Maybe DCPS should have students who are not ready repeat a year. This is also something privates do. My nibbling has repeated first grade without stigma. |