Jen Hatmaker

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/10/dear-prudence-friend-shame-relationship-high-school-coach.html

"I am a 43-year-old man, married with three kids. I’ve been a minister in the United Methodist Church for 20 years, and I was raised in a very conservative home. I had no idea that coming out was even possible when I was a child. When I went to college, I saw many others come out, but I knew I would lose my family if I tried it. Before we got married, I told my wife about my orientation, and she was willing to give things a shot anyway. Even after 20 years of marriage, I feel like I wake up every morning and live a lie. Last year the UMC ruled that clergy who are even simply attracted to the same sex are not welcome. This is the church that raised and shaped me. I knew I had to do something and told my wife, who agreed that it was time for me to be me, whatever that meant for us as a couple, and no matter how hard it might be. Oddly enough, my daughter came out at the same time (we reassured her that she is surrounded and loved just as much as ever). I left my ministry in the summer and have gone back to school. I’ve also told several close friends and have started counseling. At some point my family is going to need to find out. But I’m so afraid of being cut off forever. My counselor has helped me to realize how unhealthy my upbringing was, but that desire for connection, that desire to be loved and accepted by Mom and Dad is still there. Do I just rip the Band-Aid off, or do I continue to pretend until they pass (which could be today or 25 years from now)?"

uhhhh

What does that have to do with anything?

Yeah sorry friend but this is an unfortunately common story

[Anonymous]

well they have to afford two households now so I'm guessing they need the money from that for BH to buy a new place...it's all so sad.

[Anonymous]

What is the Zillow link for her lake house?

[Anonymous]

Selling the lake house confirms my theory that gross financial deception is behind the quick divorce. If Brandon burned through their money, especially through a gambling addiction or another woman, it would explain Jen and the children's reaction.

[Anonymous]

I wonder why she shared the selling of the lake house? She could have not shared that info, instead she will have followers speculating the ins and out of her divorce

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Her post about selling the lake house was tough. If you’ve been through a divorce, that’s the real shit right there, and it doesn’t stop. It all hurts.

I don’t care what you say, Brandon did something awful. If he’s on the outside of friend and family, all alone, it’s dark.

I wonder why she is selling and so quickly. Cash to pay a settlement?

She listed for $1M. Texas is community property so 1/2 is his. If they needed cash to pay a settlement, that would be the way to do it.

[Anonymous]

Where is the listing?

[Anonymous]

you gotsta use your detective skillz!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:you gotsta use your detective skillz!

I have

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Here you go!
Check out this home at Realtor.com
$999,900
7beds · 4 baths
525 Ellen Williams Loop, Kingsland

https://b1iw.app.link/8etJaSpRqab

https://www.realtor.com/realestateandhomes-detail/525-Ellen-Williams-Loop_Kingsland_TX_78639_M72203-09593?cid=other_shares_core_ldp

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wonder why she shared the selling of the lake house? She could have not shared that info, instead she will have followers speculating the ins and out of her divorce

Because she loves the attention.

Brandon might have been at fault but her hands aren't clean either. Living with a narcissist is exhausting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder why she shared the selling of the lake house? She could have not shared that info, instead she will have followers speculating the ins and out of her divorce

Because she loves the attention.

Brandon might have been at fault but her hands aren't clean either. Living with a narcissist is exhausting. [/quote
Agree. She loves the attention

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder why she shared the selling of the lake house? She could have not shared that info, instead she will have followers speculating the ins and out of her divorce

Because she loves the attention.

Brandon might have been at fault but her hands aren't clean either. Living with a narcissist is exhausting.

This is true.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here you go!
Check out this home at Realtor.com
$999,900
7beds · 4 baths
525 Ellen Williams Loop, Kingsland

https://b1iw.app.link/8etJaSpRqab

https://www.realtor.com/realestateandhomes-detail/525-Ellen-Williams-Loop_Kingsland_TX_78639_M72203-09593?cid=other_shares_core_ldp

I’d buy in a heartbeat