BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How big is your house? My house is not big enough for this, 2000 sq. ft. 2 bathrooms. I don't like people in my bedroom or bathroom, so, this would be a hard no for me.

From the original post, it sounds like OP has a smaller house as well. If there is no hotel room for the groomsmen to get ready, where are they all staying? Are they local? Is DH the best man? I would be inclined to allow it, but 100% put it on DH to clean, provide food, etc. Maybe you and the kids could even clear out and get a hotel room in the block to get ready.

Maybe one of the groomsmen could get a room in the block instead of expecting a family to clear out for them.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't want to host them because they are being cheap.

[Anonymous]

would compromise. They can come over an hour before they need to be at the venue to get pictures. Myself, I would send them downstairs. All guys do to get ready is put their clothes on

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't want to host them because they are being cheap.

+ inconsiderate
They have small kids

[Anonymous]

Of course you say yes. It’s a couple hours one morning for a major life event.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Of course you say yes. It’s a couple hours one morning for a major life event.

We actually don't know how long it is.

We have no idea if this is an afternoon or evening wedding.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't want to host them because they are being cheap.

This

[Anonymous]

Will they be pre-gaming?