We’re not God and kids grow at all rates and sizes. Philly Union has a U13 kid who can probably leg press like 500 lbs. The kid is built like a NFL running back. He has not been beat by any local DMV player yet. I am willing to bet he will not grow at the same rate later. But it is beneficial for my kid to go up against him and lose as my kid will problem solve, decide he wants to get stronger and make himself the best version of himself. That’s the point at this age imho. Getting hurt is part of the game. Every kid is going to hurt. We just pray that it is not career ending when it happens. Jaxson Dart recently referenced soccer as soft and we need to change this perception. Put your kid in martial arts. You don’t have to be from the hood or trailer park. If your kid leaves the sport by leaving MLS Next, that is a parent teaching and mindset issue. My kid knows at any point, he can drop down a level and be a superstar and I will still support him. He thrives on the challenge and competition so he chooses to compete. FYI, I have two Q4 players. |
Sooooo you are one of those really insane parents. |
Seriously have to wonder if some of these are real people making real posts |
I 100% believe it. People's amazing ability to try to latch on to a kernel where they can humble brag and try to seem tough while putting other people down is sad but the norm. The braggers tend to leave out relevant information. Like his kids play at an MLSN2 team or on a pre-MLSN team or are on the bench or play less skilled positions or he bribes the coaches via side lessons to get their kid on the team or playing time. The number of these crazy folks where they think that there kid is working to some long term end goal is astounding considering the only end goal U.S. soccer for boys is whether you enjoyed your childhood playing or not and realize after the fact all the other sports and stuff you missed out on. For boys, college and the pros is fool's gold but you can't convince those drinking the Kool aid that there is a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. |
No, it just shows that none of you are playing MLS Next I and actually have a kid playing. Real parent. Real kid. You just are proving why America is not great. Trying to educate but you actually justify mediocrity and excuses which is simply sad as an American. It is actually not hard to make MLS Next I or ECNL. If you are struggling, you and your kid are probably not proactive. We have about dozen coaches in the area that will give you the blueprint to go pro and make it to D1. 90% chance the shutdown impacted you significantly as well. You don’t have a 1% mentality. Don’t criticize or be defensive. Recognize you have an inferior mindset to those kids and families who really don’t give a s—— what age the age brackets are. You can view this as insight to change your weak a— mentality and improve or stay here complaining for the rest of your life. You’re welcome! |
Yep, you definitely are one of those REALLY crazy parents. |
Uninformed, unintelligent, fake toughness is why America is not great. You seem to have made a large contribution. |
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Its been the same person bringing up the rae super excuse for over a year. They'll just keep posing the same nonsense that the world is bad and they're always a victim.
The irony about rae is that clubs try their best to address it with B and C teams. The documented rae studies dont include B snd C teams because if you do suddently rae falls appart. When you point this out the excuse changes to B and C team coaches not being as good or not being able to play against as high of a level of competition. Theres never talk about getting additional touches in futsal or a Mexican league. Which often the A team players are doing which is why they're on the A team. |
They're trying to help you. |
Another one of your misinformed lies Every proper RAE study mentions 'B' and 'C' teams extensively (tells us you don't actually read) They reference the fact that lots of talented late developers get placed on B teams which have lesser training and competition. So when they do finally catch up biologically, they are usually behind the kids who were continuously getting 1st team training and competition If they didn't drop out. But that's too intellectual for you |
RAE impact is about kids not getting selected to the A teams because of delayed physical maturation It's not about skills and talent or effort |
Every rea document ive seen relates to USYNT selection which is one team. Ive never seen a rea study take B and C teams into account. |
I agree with you. But watch what the rae people do. They'll use rea as an excuse and a weapon to get what they want. Which is their kid playing on the A team. |
Other than making it clear Google and a little research isn't your friend, your comment is pretty useless B and lower teams are part of the EFFECT of RAE It's in every study from reputable sources |
| Gotta love the same forum with thousands of comments about coaches always picking big fast players is the same forum with some saying RAE isn't a thing 😂 |