Does anyone hate how competitive the world has become?

[Anonymous]

The landscape is way more competitive for all sports today. Stupid take

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s because parents are involved. They’ve ruined everything!

And that gets back to the foreign elite test mill culture that has taken root.

Omg it isn’t foreign elites. American parents are doing a fine job ruining sports on their own.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s because parents are involved. They’ve ruined everything!

And that gets back to the foreign elite test mill culture that has taken root.

Omg it isn’t foreign elites. American parents are doing a fine job ruining sports on their own.

We are "foreign elite" - highly educated immigrants with high HHI. I can tell you that our parenting is changing American parents, I can see it with our American friends. I am talking about very high academic expectations in particular. Like, expectations of excellence in whatever they are doing. Not saying it's the only factor or anything, but there is a real effect there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s because parents are involved. They’ve ruined everything!

And that gets back to the foreign elite test mill culture that has taken root.

Omg it isn’t foreign elites. American parents are doing a fine job ruining sports on their own.

We are "foreign elite" - highly educated immigrants with high HHI. I can tell you that our parenting is changing American parents, I can see it with our American friends. I am talking about very high academic expectations in particular. Like, expectations of excellence in whatever they are doing. Not saying it's the only factor or anything, but there is a real effect there.

I posted before saying Dh and I were kids of Asian immigrants. I don’t consider us foreign elite. We are both ivy educated and have a seven figure income. My oldest is studying for his PSAT/SAT on his own and prepping for his AP classes before school starts with no push from us. I am sure American parents assume we are tiger parents and cracking a whip at home.

I also have another kid who has not read a book all summer. I do nag him but it doesn’t work.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It was always competitive, OP. Many countries have had ultra competitive college admissions for generations. Here in America you just didn't realize it because you were part of the privileged. As PP said, in your generation many of the US poor or the US non-whites didn't make it to college. Now it's opened up a lot more, and you're feeling the heat.

It’s not because of US poor or non whites it’s mostly because of foreign elites coming here

This. Foreign elites also affected the housing market.

And because of the way school funding works, that affects access to good schools. Which affects access to future opportunity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It was always competitive, OP. Many countries have had ultra competitive college admissions for generations. Here in America you just didn't realize it because you were part of the privileged. As PP said, in your generation many of the US poor or the US non-whites didn't make it to college. Now it's opened up a lot more, and you're feeling the heat.

It’s not because of US poor or non whites it’s mostly because of foreign elites coming here

This. Foreign elites also affected the housing market.

And because of the way school funding works, that affects access to good schools. Which affects access to future opportunity.

They are flooding boarding schools, private schools, the best real estate stock feeding into the best public schools.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s because parents are involved. They’ve ruined everything!

And that gets back to the foreign elite test mill culture that has taken root.

Omg it isn’t foreign elites. American parents are doing a fine job ruining sports on their own.

We are "foreign elite" - highly educated immigrants with high HHI. I can tell you that our parenting is changing American parents, I can see it with our American friends. I am talking about very high academic expectations in particular. Like, expectations of excellence in whatever they are doing. Not saying it's the only factor or anything, but there is a real effect there.

I posted before saying Dh and I were kids of Asian immigrants. I don’t consider us foreign elite. We are both ivy educated and have a seven figure income. My oldest is studying for his PSAT/SAT on his own and prepping for his AP classes before school starts with no push from us. I am sure American parents assume we are tiger parents and cracking a whip at home.

I also have another kid who has not read a book all summer. I do nag him but it doesn’t work.

Well thank God you made sure we know these nuggets of super pertinent information!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s because parents are involved. They’ve ruined everything!

And that gets back to the foreign elite test mill culture that has taken root.

Omg it isn’t foreign elites. American parents are doing a fine job ruining sports on their own.

We are "foreign elite" - highly educated immigrants with high HHI. I can tell you that our parenting is changing American parents, I can see it with our American friends. I am talking about very high academic expectations in particular. Like, expectations of excellence in whatever they are doing. Not saying it's the only factor or anything, but there is a real effect there.

I’m the PP you replied to. I am married to an highly educated immigrant (Latino). In my experience in NWDC rich white culture, the parents are doing fine ruining sports. There are no Asians in these circles. “Foreign elite” must be a suburban phenomenon.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It was always competitive, OP. Many countries have had ultra competitive college admissions for generations. Here in America you just didn't realize it because you were part of the privileged. As PP said, in your generation many of the US poor or the US non-whites didn't make it to college. Now it's opened up a lot more, and you're feeling the heat.

It’s not because of US poor or non whites it’s mostly because of foreign elites coming here

This. Foreign elites also affected the housing market.

I was a child of poor Asian immigrants. My parents came here for a better life. Same with DH’s family. DH and I did well in school and professionally. Recently there has been a wave of extremely wealthy Asians. They were not as common when I was a kid. These are people who will buy a $5m home cash without blinking. They have money and brains. So you now have the smart Asian Americans like my kids, the kids of poor Asian immigrants (like me and Dh when we were kids) and now the really smart rich immigrant kids.

There are more and more Chinese illegal immigrants crossing the southern border. According to Homeland Security there was an. 8,000 percent increase in border crossings from March of last year to March of this year. People automatically think brown people when discussing illegal immigrants but Asians are coming to the country illegally too and the numbers are going up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s because parents are involved. They’ve ruined everything!

And that gets back to the foreign elite test mill culture that has taken root.

Omg it isn’t foreign elites. American parents are doing a fine job ruining sports on their own.

We are "foreign elite" - highly educated immigrants with high HHI. I can tell you that our parenting is changing American parents, I can see it with our American friends. I am talking about very high academic expectations in particular. Like, expectations of excellence in whatever they are doing. Not saying it's the only factor or anything, but there is a real effect there.

I’m the PP you replied to. I am married to an highly educated immigrant (Latino). In my experience in NWDC rich white culture, the parents are doing fine ruining sports. There are no Asians in these circles. “Foreign elite” must be a suburban phenomenon.

Are you an immigrant yourself? There are plenty of Asian Americans in sports. Just look at the Olympics.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s because parents are involved. They’ve ruined everything!

And that gets back to the foreign elite test mill culture that has taken root.

Omg it isn’t foreign elites. American parents are doing a fine job ruining sports on their own.

We are "foreign elite" - highly educated immigrants with high HHI. I can tell you that our parenting is changing American parents, I can see it with our American friends. I am talking about very high academic expectations in particular. Like, expectations of excellence in whatever they are doing. Not saying it's the only factor or anything, but there is a real effect there.

I posted before saying Dh and I were kids of Asian immigrants. I don’t consider us foreign elite. We are both ivy educated and have a seven figure income. My oldest is studying for his PSAT/SAT on his own and prepping for his AP classes before school starts with no push from us. I am sure American parents assume we are tiger parents and cracking a whip at home.

I also have another kid who has not read a book all summer. I do nag him but it doesn’t work.

Um, yeah? You are just an American. My kids are not "foreign elite" either. You have to have been a foreigner (at least for a while) to a foreigner.

[Anonymous]

I doubt that asians crossing the southern border is significant. It is more likely for illegal immigrants from asia to enter with some sort of visa and overstay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
I was a child of poor Asian immigrants. My parents came here for a better life. Same with DH’s family. DH and I did well in school and professionally. Recently there has been a wave of extremely wealthy Asians. They were not as common when I was a kid. These are people who will buy a $5m home cash without blinking. They have money and brains. So you now have the smart Asian Americans like my kids, the kids of poor Asian immigrants (like me and Dh when we were kids) and now the really smart rich immigrant kids.

So true. Most asian immigrants are wealthy these days. Very different from the 80's/90's.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It was always competitive, OP. Many countries have had ultra competitive college admissions for generations. Here in America you just didn't realize it because you were part of the privileged. As PP said, in your generation many of the US poor or the US non-whites didn't make it to college. Now it's opened up a lot more, and you're feeling the heat.

It’s not because of US poor or non whites it’s mostly because of foreign elites coming here

This. Foreign elites also affected the housing market.

I was a child of poor Asian immigrants. My parents came here for a better life. Same with DH’s family. DH and I did well in school and professionally. Recently there has been a wave of extremely wealthy Asians. They were not as common when I was a kid. These are people who will buy a $5m home cash without blinking. They have money and brains. So you now have the smart Asian Americans like my kids, the kids of poor Asian immigrants (like me and Dh when we were kids) and now the really smart rich immigrant kids.

There are more and more Chinese illegal immigrants crossing the southern border. According to Homeland Security there was an. 8,000 percent increase in border crossings from March of last year to March of this year. People automatically think brown people when discussing illegal immigrants but Asians are coming to the country illegally too and the numbers are going up.

Pretty sure they aren’t the ones buying houses for $5MM cash.

I agree with PP…we aren’t seeing many of these HNW immigrants in Upper NW DC. Perhaps they are all in McLean or Great Falls.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It was always competitive, OP. Many countries have had ultra competitive college admissions for generations. Here in America you just didn't realize it because you were part of the privileged. As PP said, in your generation many of the US poor or the US non-whites didn't make it to college. Now it's opened up a lot more, and you're feeling the heat.

It’s not because of US poor or non whites it’s mostly because of foreign elites coming here

This. Foreign elites also affected the housing market.

I was a child of poor Asian immigrants. My parents came here for a better life. Same with DH’s family. DH and I did well in school and professionally. Recently there has been a wave of extremely wealthy Asians. They were not as common when I was a kid. These are people who will buy a $5m home cash without blinking. They have money and brains. So you now have the smart Asian Americans like my kids, the kids of poor Asian immigrants (like me and Dh when we were kids) and now the really smart rich immigrant kids.

There are more and more Chinese illegal immigrants crossing the southern border. According to Homeland Security there was an. 8,000 percent increase in border crossings from March of last year to March of this year. People automatically think brown people when discussing illegal immigrants but Asians are coming to the country illegally too and the numbers are going up.

Pretty sure they aren’t the ones buying houses for $5MM cash.

I agree with PP…we aren’t seeing many of these HNW immigrants in Upper NW DC. Perhaps they are all in McLean or Great Falls.

+1

These guys just fly over.
LMAO at thinking of them grubbing around by the Mexican border