Rude or not?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Rude. If someone mentions it to the bride she’ll feel bad not to have included him or she’ll feel guilted into squeezing him in.

Oh brother. The OP is a grown adult and she can spend her time any way she wants to when she is in town for the wedding. She can bring along 20 people if she wants, it's none of the bride's business.