WWYD? or what should I do? Boyfriend crying

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Good news.

Take care of yourself. But be guarded, because he is not over his ex. If in a few months he is not the one, then he isn't. Men are like street cars, if you miss one, you catch the next.

He'll probably never be over her. Their relationship didn't end because of cheating, or lack of attraction or all the other reasons for splitting on DCUM, his wife died. She
ll always have a piece of his heart. If OP can't handle that she should move on. And yes she should be on the lookout to see if he's moving their relationship forward and not disproportionately dwelling on his wife and their life together. For now it's good he called and told OP what was up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. He actually called me tonight and apologized for yesterday, leaving abruptly and canceling the rest of our date, and for not responding to my text. He just needed some time to clear his head. His wife's birthday was on Saturday. He wasn't sure how to tell me about that. It seems he was just overcome with a lot of emotions at once. He does want to keep seeing me, and I'd like to keep seeing him so we'll see where this goes. Thank you to everyone who took the time to give me some feedback.

I'm glad he called op.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. He actually called me tonight and apologized for yesterday, leaving abruptly and canceling the rest of our date, and for not responding to my text. He just needed some time to clear his head. His wife's birthday was on Saturday. He wasn't sure how to tell me about that. It seems he was just overcome with a lot of emotions at once. He does want to keep seeing me, and I'd like to keep seeing him so we'll see where this goes. Thank you to everyone who took the time to give me some feedback.

I'm glad he called op.

+1 Hope this works out for both of you!