Should I give her another chance? Disappeared after our date.
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Anonymous
+2. You went on one date and she didn't respond immediately to your question. When she did respond, in a not unreasonable timeframe considering the expected strength of a one date relationship, she even explained why in an open and forthright way. You're the one who's coming off bad here. |
Anonymous
+3. |
Anonymous
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She may be the type that requires, or desires less communication than you. That said, she already showed you that her ex baggage will come before you if you get into a relationship.
She couldn't respond to you because she was texting with the ex all weekend, while ignoring you? She isn't done with the ex yet. Not to where he is out of the picture. Date her, or not but don't be naive about that ex. He will loom large over any relationship you have with her, always casting a dark shadow. BTDT, NEVER AGAIN!! |
Anonymous
| You just don't know OP if situation is like she isn't over her ex versus the ex isn't over her. Nobody on DCUM knows. So just give her a chance. I say go for it! |
Anonymous
| yes, even if she had no explanation at all everyone deserves a second chance. Here she had a pretty good explanation. So my advice is to do it. (Remember someday you may need someone else to give you a second chance, and karma is a b*tch). I hope it works out for you, good luck! |
Anonymous
| Dude, dump this B***h. She gots a lot of baggage and you can do lot better. If you give her this chance then she would jerk you around forever. |