Anonymous wrote:Thank God, my mom is super supportive. There are a few things she told me when I got married. 1. Don't share your marital and domestic woes with anyone. 2. Don't share any good or bad news about your ILs with your birth family and vice versa. 3. Your allegiance is with your kids and DH.
Remember that people want your support in action, not in your opinions. It is a good lesson to learn so that we are helpful to our children and their spouses. No one wants judgemental people.
Smarty lady, your mom. Painfully learned these lessons on my own.
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