In love with FIL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your actor FIL would never star in a movie this badly scripted.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here - I think he loves me too. We haven’t kissed but we have had intimate discussions. Maybe I should talk to my priest.

Priest are not trained for this.

Get therapy and stop having him visit.

We’re you molested as a child? Abandoned? Abused?

??? Priests are totally trained for this. They handle people's problems day in, day out. They were the original version of therapists, but with a heavy overlay of Christian moral code.

OP is contemplating banging her FIL.

Priests are trained in “how to obey your h” or “chore play” they are not trained in serious mental health breakdowns!!!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP here - I think he loves me too. We haven’t kissed but we have had intimate discussions. Maybe I should talk to my priest.

Priest are not trained for this.

Get therapy and stop having him visit.

We’re you molested as a child? Abandoned? Abused?

??? Priests are totally trained for this. They handle people's problems day in, day out. They were the original version of therapists, but with a heavy overlay of Christian moral code.

OP is contemplating banging her FIL.

Priests are trained in “how to obey your h” or “chore play” they are not trained in serious mental health breakdowns!!!

I disagree. And OP is not having a mental breakdown. She's just having a moment.

[Anonymous]

^^ A moment? I’ve been married 25 years, and not for one moment has this thought crossed my mind!

Do people seriously not care about their marriages, kids or reputations anymore? OP doesn’t seem to be that conflicted about it. If this can happen, then what’s next?

[Anonymous]

OP again - I do feel guilty and honestly nothing happened to me as a kid. If I’m honest with myself, I think I’ve always favored older men. Not fair to my DH, whom I adore, but the we are so connected.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP again - I do feel guilty and honestly nothing happened to me as a kid. If I’m honest with myself, I think I’ve always favored older men. Not fair to my DH, whom I adore, but the we are so connected.

But you can restrain yourself, correct? Please do so. The fallout would be terrible, as you can well imagine. Keep the fantasy, don't make it a reality.

[Anonymous]

Your kids will hate you and FIL will dump you for the next young piece.

[Anonymous]

Some people should not be parents. Dad isn't in the picture and mom is a terrible role model and mentally unstable. Poor kids are going to be beyond messed up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your kids will hate you and FIL will dump you for the next young piece.

BUT IT"S TRUE LOOOVEEEE. The thing I don't get is....how can you be attracted to someone that would destroy their son's world, turn entire families against him, and mess up his grandchildren? I mean I get it, you're obviously a gold digging selfish piece of trash who doesn't care about those things, so maybe that's why that thought doesn't totally disgust you.

[Anonymous]

I get it, OP. My FIL is more of a “manly man” than DH in some ways. I can see how it would be appealing.

Of course, he also looks like Santa Claus so no, I actually don’t get it.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here - I think he loves me too. We haven’t kissed but we have had intimate discussions. Maybe I should talk to my priest.

Priest are not trained for this.

Get therapy and stop having him visit.

We’re you molested as a child? Abandoned? Abused?

??? Priests are totally trained for this. They handle people's problems day in, day out. They were the original version of therapists, but with a heavy overlay of Christian moral code.

OP is contemplating banging her FIL.

Priests are trained in “how to obey your h” or “chore play” they are not trained in serious mental health breakdowns!!!

Yea, that's a response I would expect from somebody who thinks a priest is trained to counsel people.

It's not hard to dupe somebody that believes all the fiction in the bible.
I disagree. And OP is not having a mental breakdown. She's just having a moment.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here - I think he loves me too. We haven’t kissed but we have had intimate discussions. Maybe I should talk to my priest.

Priest are not trained for this.

Get therapy and stop having him visit.

We’re you molested as a child? Abandoned? Abused?

??? Priests are totally trained for this. They handle people's problems day in, day out. They were the original version of therapists, but with a heavy overlay of Christian moral code.

OP is contemplating banging her FIL.

Priests are trained in “how to obey your h” or “chore play” they are not trained in serious mental health breakdowns!!!

I disagree. And OP is not having a mental breakdown. She's just having a moment.

You sound insane.

Yea, that's a response I would expect from somebody who thinks a priest is trained to counsel people.

It's not hard to dupe somebody that believes all the fiction in the bible.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^^ A moment? I’ve been married 25 years, and not for one moment has this thought crossed my mind!

Do people seriously not care about their marriages, kids or reputations anymore? OP doesn’t seem to be that conflicted about it. If this can happen, then what’s next?

Don's listen to the holy roller... priests have had too many "moments" with children and she doesn't care.

[Anonymous]

Op, work on your marriage. Get a nanny or part-time babysitter to help with the children. Tell FIL that you’ve got childcare covered and stop having him come down to help. Work on reconnecting with your spouse.

You’re at a crossroads, op. You can either remove the temptation of this other person and rebuild what you have, or you can go down a path that will ruin your marriage and your dh’s relationship with his dad, not to mention the impact on your kids.

You can do the right thing, or the wrong thing. I hope you pick the right thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can’t even read the title without mildly dry heaving

Haha, me too.