Brutal relationship advice from the internet’s most ruthless dating site

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Anonymous wrote:Doesn’t seem like terrible advice. I particularly think pushing back in the arbitrary “men expect sex by the third date” bs is good. Women should have Alex when they feel comfortable doing so and when they’d like to and that’s often (mostly!) not by the third date. Many have been socialized to fake being good with it because they’re “chill.”

Good luck with that "make him wait" strategy

So you’re against women having sex when they are comfortable and want to? And instead think they should just plan on putting out by the third date? Good luck with that strategy!

Women can have sex whenever they want. If they aren't into doing it reasonably early, I have to assume they don't like me and I should move on. I doubt George Clooney ever waits beyond the first 20 minutes of a date.

Amal definitely made him wait. Higher caliber of woman than the bimbos he used to date.

Totally. She was the one you marry and procreate with. She didn't put up with his sh*t.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This article had me simultaneously laughing hysterically and gasping in shock.

Men are 'ass garbage', and they need to be 'ruthlessly evaluated' before you form an emotional attachment.

Female Dating Strategy looks like your standard self-help site, but critics say its philosophy is nothing more than toxic misandry.

In order to “level up” from this state and achieve “queen” or “dreamgirl” status, women have to build their self-esteem and avoid “scrotes” (dickheads, otherwise known as most men). They can do this in a number of ways, including focusing on their career or having a few men in “scrotation” (dating rotation).

Women are warned off having sex in the first three months of courtship and told to avoid – at all costs – moving in with a boyfriend before marriage. After all, for men, a live-in girlfriend is just “like a video game achievement that unlocks regular, free sex and half off your rent”. Why would they want to marry you after that?

https://www.vice.com/en/article/akdm4a/female-dating-strategy-relationship-advice

"Female dating strategy" is basically just "female incels". Similar to incels, they aren't unsuccessful in love because they're not picky enough they're unsuccessful because they're angry/toxic people and no man or woman wants to be around that.

Whenever someone asks me for dating advice I boil it down to 3 tips: 1. Be nice to him 2. Enjoy having sex with him. 3. Respect him. Stop it with all this "I'M A QUEEN! I'M GOING TO WITHHOLD SEX AND PLAY GAMES" nonsense. Like seeks like and when you behave like that you don't attract quality men.

Having sex with men before marriage is risky. The other two are fine, but you are basically asking women to risk their entire lives just to keep a guy happy in bed. It also goes against many religions. Do men not understand this anymore?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This article had me simultaneously laughing hysterically and gasping in shock.

Men are 'ass garbage', and they need to be 'ruthlessly evaluated' before you form an emotional attachment.

Female Dating Strategy looks like your standard self-help site, but critics say its philosophy is nothing more than toxic misandry.

In order to “level up” from this state and achieve “queen” or “dreamgirl” status, women have to build their self-esteem and avoid “scrotes” (dickheads, otherwise known as most men). They can do this in a number of ways, including focusing on their career or having a few men in “scrotation” (dating rotation).

Women are warned off having sex in the first three months of courtship and told to avoid – at all costs – moving in with a boyfriend before marriage. After all, for men, a live-in girlfriend is just “like a video game achievement that unlocks regular, free sex and half off your rent”. Why would they want to marry you after that?

https://www.vice.com/en/article/akdm4a/female-dating-strategy-relationship-advice

"Female dating strategy" is basically just "female incels". Similar to incels, they aren't unsuccessful in love because they're not picky enough they're unsuccessful because they're angry/toxic people and no man or woman wants to be around that.

Whenever someone asks me for dating advice I boil it down to 3 tips: 1. Be nice to him 2. Enjoy having sex with him. 3. Respect him. Stop it with all this "I'M A QUEEN! I'M GOING TO WITHHOLD SEX AND PLAY GAMES" nonsense. Like seeks like and when you behave like that you don't attract quality men.

Having sex with men before marriage is risky. The other two are fine, but you are basically asking women to risk their entire lives just to keep a guy happy in bed. It also goes against many religions. Do men not understand this anymore?

Sex before marriage is risky? Risking their entire lives? Mmmmkay. Get back to church

[Anonymous]

Yes, women are stuck raising children or having an abortion which can also hurt them physically and both are costly. My children take up a good third of our pay a year. Then you have to worry about diseases as well. This used to be common knowledge before the pill. Is the dating world really that crazy now that men don't understand this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, women are stuck raising children or having an abortion which can also hurt them physically and both are costly. My children take up a good third of our pay a year. Then you have to worry about diseases as well. This used to be common knowledge before the pill. Is the dating world really that crazy now that men don't understand this?

If you have no idea about the dating world, which you don’t, then don’t post on threads which discuss dating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This article had me simultaneously laughing hysterically and gasping in shock.

Men are 'ass garbage', and they need to be 'ruthlessly evaluated' before you form an emotional attachment.

Female Dating Strategy looks like your standard self-help site, but critics say its philosophy is nothing more than toxic misandry.

In order to “level up” from this state and achieve “queen” or “dreamgirl” status, women have to build their self-esteem and avoid “scrotes” (dickheads, otherwise known as most men). They can do this in a number of ways, including focusing on their career or having a few men in “scrotation” (dating rotation).

Women are warned off having sex in the first three months of courtship and told to avoid – at all costs – moving in with a boyfriend before marriage. After all, for men, a live-in girlfriend is just “like a video game achievement that unlocks regular, free sex and half off your rent”. Why would they want to marry you after that?

https://www.vice.com/en/article/akdm4a/female-dating-strategy-relationship-advice

"Female dating strategy" is basically just "female incels". Similar to incels, they aren't unsuccessful in love because they're not picky enough they're unsuccessful because they're angry/toxic people and no man or woman wants to be around that.

Whenever someone asks me for dating advice I boil it down to 3 tips: 1. Be nice to him 2. Enjoy having sex with him. 3. Respect him. Stop it with all this "I'M A QUEEN! I'M GOING TO WITHHOLD SEX AND PLAY GAMES" nonsense. Like seeks like and when you behave like that you don't attract quality men.

Having sex with men before marriage is risky. The other two are fine, but you are basically asking women to risk their entire lives just to keep a guy happy in bed. It also goes against many religions. Do men not understand this anymore?

I'm not a man. I can't be bothered with you people who have hangups. And that's fine. If you don't want to have sex, then don't. But you're not entitled to a relationship with someone just because you want one. Find a compatible partner and stop hassling those of us who view sex differently than you do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, women are stuck raising children or having an abortion which can also hurt them physically and both are costly. My children take up a good third of our pay a year. Then you have to worry about diseases as well. This used to be common knowledge before the pill. Is the dating world really that crazy now that men don't understand this?

These days we seek a partner who's compatible. I know, how crazy.

I've never had an unwanted pregnancy nor have I had an STI. Next question.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, women are stuck raising children or having an abortion which can also hurt them physically and both are costly. My children take up a good third of our pay a year. Then you have to worry about diseases as well. This used to be common knowledge before the pill. Is the dating world really that crazy now that men don't understand this?

If you have no idea about the dating world, which you don’t, then don’t post on threads which discuss dating.

I may be there at some point. I see all of these posts of men who want to wait till marriage. There must be some middle ground where people don't expect sex after the 3rd date.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, women are stuck raising children or having an abortion which can also hurt them physically and both are costly. My children take up a good third of our pay a year. Then you have to worry about diseases as well. This used to be common knowledge before the pill. Is the dating world really that crazy now that men don't understand this?

These days we seek a partner who's compatible. I know, how crazy.

I've never had an unwanted pregnancy nor have I had an STI. Next question.

And you know the person is compatible after the third date? Why are you still dating then? Didn't you get married after a month?

[Anonymous]

I see all of these posts of men who want to wait till marriage.

Posts where? What man proposes nowadays to a woman who isn’t already an enthusiastic sex partner?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, women are stuck raising children or having an abortion which can also hurt them physically and both are costly. My children take up a good third of our pay a year. Then you have to worry about diseases as well. This used to be common knowledge before the pill. Is the dating world really that crazy now that men don't understand this?

These days we seek a partner who's compatible. I know, how crazy.

I've never had an unwanted pregnancy nor have I had an STI. Next question.

And you know the person is compatible after the third date? Why are you still dating then? Didn't you get married after a month?

I didn't say I know they're compatible. Your reading comprehension is as crappy as your libido.

[Anonymous]

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I see all of these posts of men who want to wait till marriage.

Posts where? What man proposes nowadays to a woman who isn’t already an enthusiastic sex partner?

No no no, you're wrong, successful and attractive men are all going to bed alone because they're waiting for a pure woman like PP to come along

[Anonymous]

You absolutely should both have sex and move in together before getting married!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You absolutely should both have sex and move in together before getting married!

That's a little different though than sex after the 3rd date.