39 and broke up with my ex

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You did the right thing to break up with him. You did the wrong thing to go and tell a bunch of people he knows. That is childish and reflects poorly on you. They don't care, neither do the younger hot nurses at work. He's already moved on.

You do the same. Find someone better.

Again, not everyone who is young is hot. And when is the last time you saw a “young hot nurse?” Some of you live in a fantasy land of stereotypes.

A lot of 4 yr university new grad nurses are pretty attractive. The ones that are pair of with Drs pretty quickly.

Actual "hot" nursing graduates



What dcumers think a young hot nurse looks like



What a dr actually marries





What dcum thinks a doctor couple looks like

I forgot DCUM hates nurses. Ok, let’s try again. Her ex has moved on. He will find/found, a hot resident/attending physician, a hot PA, a hot OT, a hot dietician, a hot pharmaceutical rep....get the picture? The medical field has a lot of women in it, and there are plenty that are very attractive (and a lot younger than OP).

So you are a nurse, right?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If he didn’t marry you by 39, he wouldn’t have. You made the right choice to leave.

You made the right choice. You wanted to marry him, but he didn’t want to be married. He’s a dog and was cheating on you.

[Anonymous]

OP the moment I hit my 30s in the dating scene I gave people 1-1
5 years max. If I wanted a family, I had to be serious. My last boyfriend before my husband had significant issues making decisions. At 1.5 years it was like we had been dating a week. He had no plans for a future with me. So I dumped him and met my husband 3 months later. Within 9 months we were engaged. That's how you have to date in your 30s or men will keep wasting your time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP the moment I hit my 30s in the dating scene I gave people 1-1
5 years max. If I wanted a family, I had to be serious. My last boyfriend before my husband had significant issues making decisions. At 1.5 years it was like we had been dating a week. He had no plans for a future with me. So I dumped him and met my husband 3 months later. Within 9 months we were engaged. That's how you have to date in your 30s or men will keep wasting your time.

Good advice. There are men out there looking to settle down too. You just have to find them

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP the moment I hit my 30s in the dating scene I gave people 1-1
5 years max. If I wanted a family, I had to be serious. My last boyfriend before my husband had significant issues making decisions. At 1.5 years it was like we had been dating a week. He had no plans for a future with me. So I dumped him and met my husband 3 months later. Within 9 months we were engaged. That's how you have to date in your 30s or men will keep wasting your time.

Good advice. There are men out there looking to settle down too. You just have to find them

+1. Or let them find you.

[Anonymous]

Troll. There was another thread similar to this one, called 35 and single.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Troll. There was another thread similar to this one, called 35 and single.

Do you read? They are different titles and the other one is a nurse. Why do people call troll on anything they don't like? So stupid

[Anonymous]

OP you made the big mistake in wasting 5 years. After a year you both should have decided to get married or go your own ways.

[Anonymous]

No, not a mistake. Better now then if you got married. Get back in the game. Do something nice for yourself. You will be fine.