39 and broke up with my ex

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You did the right thing to break up with him. You did the wrong thing to go and tell a bunch of people he knows. That is childish and reflects poorly on you. They don't care, neither do the younger hot nurses at work. He's already moved on.

You do the same. Find someone better.

Again, not everyone who is young is hot. And when is the last time you saw a “young hot nurse?” Some of you live in a fantasy land of stereotypes.

A lot of 4 yr university new grad nurses are pretty attractive. The ones that are pair of with Drs pretty quickly.

[Anonymous]

Is he a lot younger than you OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There's nothing worse than being married to the wrong person. While some people are too picky on superficial stuff, not being treated well should always be a dealbreaker.

This.

He’s a cheater —who cares who he is dating now?

[Anonymous]

5 years without marriage in your late 30's. You already blew-it, Op. Do some soul searching. You need a complete re-set on your approach/thinking.

How about adopting a child. How about a sperm bank. You can likely create a happy family, and even have that include a husband at some point. It is likely to take some time, re: a husband, for you to get to a better, healthier mind set.

But there are things you can do to begin the journey of a family. I assume you're self-supporting?

[Anonymous]

I met DH at 38 he was 39. Married at 40. Baby at 45. We had fertility challenges and had to use Donor Eggs. But watching my friends deal with bad marriages or bad divorces due to unconscious panic marrying made me very grateful that I was able to find a great husband and still have a baby, even if it wasn't the way I had imagined.

Get into therapy and figure out why you stayed in a relationship that you suspected cheating for 5 years. By mid 30's if you aren't talking about marriage (not marrying each other just general discussion of what you are looking for) and seriously deciding at 1 year that you are leaning towards marriage and making the decision by year 2, you are wasting your time.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You did the right thing to break up with him. You did the wrong thing to go and tell a bunch of people he knows. That is childish and reflects poorly on you. They don't care, neither do the younger hot nurses at work. He's already moved on.

You do the same. Find someone better.

Again, not everyone who is young is hot. And when is the last time you saw a “young hot nurse?” Some of you live in a fantasy land of stereotypes.

A lot of 4 yr university new grad nurses are pretty attractive. The ones that are pair of with Drs pretty quickly.

Actual "hot" nursing graduates



What dcumers think a young hot nurse looks like



What a dr actually marries





What dcum thinks a doctor couple looks like

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You did the right thing to break up with him. You did the wrong thing to go and tell a bunch of people he knows. That is childish and reflects poorly on you. They don't care, neither do the younger hot nurses at work. He's already moved on.

You do the same. Find someone better.

Again, not everyone who is young is hot. And when is the last time you saw a “young hot nurse?” Some of you live in a fantasy land of stereotypes.

A lot of 4 yr university new grad nurses are pretty attractive. The ones that are pair of with Drs pretty quickly.

Actual "hot" nursing graduates



What dcumers think a young hot nurse looks like



What a dr actually marries





What dcum thinks a doctor couple looks like

Ha! Yes! Exactly!

[Anonymous]

Scrubs & Stripes are cute. 🥰

[Anonymous]

And reading their post, even cuter.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You did the right thing to break up with him. You did the wrong thing to go and tell a bunch of people he knows. That is childish and reflects poorly on you. They don't care, neither do the younger hot nurses at work. He's already moved on.

You do the same. Find someone better.

Again, not everyone who is young is hot. And when is the last time you saw a “young hot nurse?” Some of you live in a fantasy land of stereotypes.

A lot of 4 yr university new grad nurses are pretty attractive. The ones that are pair of with Drs pretty quickly.

Actual "hot" nursing graduates



What dcumers think a young hot nurse looks like



What a dr actually marries





What dcum thinks a doctor couple looks like

Ha! Yes! Exactly!

This is hilarious! Mainly true.

[Anonymous]

OP, why even question this? Only solution would be to have a baby with this guy but then you're stuck with a liar/a-hole for life as a co-parent.

Look for a sperm bank now so that you have a chance for a child while continuing to date. This is your life and make it happen the way you want to. No regrets.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No shame in starting a family on your own

This.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You did the right thing to break up with him. You did the wrong thing to go and tell a bunch of people he knows. That is childish and reflects poorly on you. They don't care, neither do the younger hot nurses at work. He's already moved on.

You do the same. Find someone better.

Again, not everyone who is young is hot. And when is the last time you saw a “young hot nurse?” Some of you live in a fantasy land of stereotypes.

A lot of 4 yr university new grad nurses are pretty attractive. The ones that are pair of with Drs pretty quickly.

Actual "hot" nursing graduates



What dcumers think a young hot nurse looks like



What a dr actually marries





What dcum thinks a doctor couple looks like

I forgot DCUM hates nurses. Ok, let’s try again. Her ex has moved on. He will find/found, a hot resident/attending physician, a hot PA, a hot OT, a hot dietician, a hot pharmaceutical rep....get the picture? The medical field has a lot of women in it, and there are plenty that are very attractive (and a lot younger than OP).

[Anonymous]

^ please this isn't about hating nurse. OP's ex can go date whomever he wants and frankly she should be glad she's rid of him. Nevertheless, the pics are of normal people dating other normal people regardless of their career.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You did the right thing to break up with him. You did the wrong thing to go and tell a bunch of people he knows. That is childish and reflects poorly on you. They don't care, neither do the younger hot nurses at work. He's already moved on.

You do the same. Find someone better.

Again, not everyone who is young is hot. And when is the last time you saw a “young hot nurse?” Some of you live in a fantasy land of stereotypes.

A lot of 4 yr university new grad nurses are pretty attractive. The ones that are pair of with Drs pretty quickly.

Actual "hot" nursing graduates



What dcumers think a young hot nurse looks like



What a dr actually marries





What dcum thinks a doctor couple looks like

I forgot DCUM hates nurses. Ok, let’s try again. Her ex has moved on. He will find/found, a hot resident/attending physician, a hot PA, a hot OT, a hot dietician, a hot pharmaceutical rep....get the picture? The medical field has a lot of women in it, and there are plenty that are very attractive (and a lot younger than OP).

Are you one of the male trolls obsessed with age again? The medical field isn't a modeling agency so what you perceive as hot in everyday younger people is subjective. Statistically there are more average to unattractive people than there are attractive ones did you know?

Stop trying to make people you don't know feel bad.