Longest you’ve gone without sex in marriage

[Anonymous]

6 weeks post partum. Maybe a week here or there for medical issues?

[Anonymous]

A couple months - postpartum and a couple other times due to physical or mental health challenges. We have a very loving and happy marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not married, but curious. Longest I’ve gone in relationship was two weeks.

Ha! Once you have kids it's a whole new ballgame. Every time we try, a kid opens the door. So frustrating.

Where there’s a will, there’s a way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:4 weeks or so. We are pretty open with each other. So when we’ve had dry spells (and we’ve had a couple since Covid started) one of us will say “hey we’ve been having a dry spell. What’s up? Should we make a plan to do it?” And talk out any issues

Sounds romantic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:4 weeks or so. We are pretty open with each other. So when we’ve had dry spells (and we’ve had a couple since Covid started) one of us will say “hey we’ve been having a dry spell. What’s up? Should we make a plan to do it?” And talk out any issues

Sounds romantic.

[Anonymous]

15 months

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:6 weeks post partum. Maybe a week here or there for medical issues?

How long have you been married?

[Anonymous]

6 weeks postpartum x 3 kids, ~2 weeks otherwise.

[Anonymous]

4 weeks after major surgery.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:4 weeks or so. We are pretty open with each other. So when we’ve had dry spells (and we’ve had a couple since Covid started) one of us will say “hey we’ve been having a dry spell. What’s up? Should we make a plan to do it?” And talk out any issues

Sounds romantic.

Sounds better than a dead bedroom. Being able to talk about why we are having a dry a dry spell is super important

[Anonymous]

You do realize men complaining about infrequency of sex is incel behavior, right?

[Anonymous]

Not for medical reasons (birth, surgery, etc) , just a week. Married 10 years. Have an 8 year old

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You do realize men complaining about infrequency of sex is incel behavior, right?

I'm a wife and I'd be complaining about infrequent sex too

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:4 weeks or so. We are pretty open with each other. So when we’ve had dry spells (and we’ve had a couple since Covid started) one of us will say “hey we’ve been having a dry spell. What’s up? Should we make a plan to do it?” And talk out any issues

Sounds romantic.

Not every sexual encounter with your spouse has to be romantic. Sometimes, when you have little kids, you just need to insert tab A into slot B.

[Anonymous]

6 months due to pregnancy complications.