Longest you’ve gone without sex in marriage

[Anonymous]

8 weeks postpartum.

[Anonymous]

Five months after first birth. Who are these people having sex at 6 weeks post partum. I would rather have pulled out my own tooth.

[Anonymous]

I don’t have sex during pregnancy or my post parting period so like 11 months

[Anonymous]

The last five years of my marriage my husband I did not have sex, and by the way I never once turned him down in our entire 24 year marriage. I did have some sex toward the end of the marriage but not with him.

[Anonymous]

Some I feel like some 6-12 week stretches tied to end of pregnancy/c sections. Outside of health issues I think no longer than 8 weeks. And the once or twice that happened Has been like a five alarm relationship fire

[Anonymous]

Postpartum- 6 or 7 weeks, otherwise maybe 2 weeks.

[Anonymous]

2 weeks tops, postpartum we still made each other come but just no PIV

[Anonymous]

The last probably 5 months of my pregnancy plus about two months postpartum? So about 7 months. We were both a bit squicked out by sex once the baby started kicking, and we’re pretty low drive anyway, so no biggie. It’ll probably be similar this pregnancy, but so far we’re still having sex.

Very, very happily married.

[Anonymous]

7 months. It's was both a cause and a symptom of a ton of problems. Doing a little better now. But our sex life went from amazing to dead when the first kid was born a decade ago. It's been really really hard to stay married and faithful

[Anonymous]

7 years and counting. He says he's just not into it. I'm getting my ducks in a row for when we're empty nesters.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:8 weeks postpartum.

Same. Otherwise we have regular sex. We may go through a rare dry spell here and there, but I would say that doesn’t last more than 10 days

[Anonymous]

Most of my pregnancies. Dh wasn’t interested in sex with me when pregnant. Otherwise an excellent relationship. He was dying to have sex postpartum

[Anonymous]

4 weeks or so. We are pretty open with each other. So when we’ve had dry spells (and we’ve had a couple since Covid started) one of us will say “hey we’ve been having a dry spell. What’s up? Should we make a plan to do it?” And talk out any issues

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not married, but curious. Longest I’ve gone in relationship was two weeks.

Ha! Once you have kids it's a whole new ballgame. Every time we try, a kid opens the door. So frustrating.

Lock it?

[Anonymous]

8 years. And I don't mind at all.