Anonymous wrote:This is OP. My son is not your typical boy. He is an old soul, with a heart of gold, deeply held moral values, and a strong faith that leads him to respect others and especially women. He treats me like gold, and would do the same for any girlfriend or wife. He has developed a deep relationship with this girl, and they love each other. This isn't about "scratching an itch".
They will continue to wait...or not I guess. We will be moving in about a year and we will see what happens to the relationship then. I believe that she will leave her family and move to the state we will be going to and maybe they will be free to see each other then. She is on her way to a great career and can find a job anywhere.
I also don't want to be tied to this family in the future but I really believe she will break free from her crazy family at some point.
The wife is well and truly brainwashed to believe this is for their good, and our friendship is just surface now because of the kids. I keep it friendly, but can't let my kids think that living like that is ok, regardless of what they think the Bible "says".
OP I say this kindly. Stay out of your 20 year old son’s love life. He needs to figure things out without your involvement.
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