Underused method to catch cheaters

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:ttps://www.cheaterbuster.net

Works like a charm. Scans every dating app. only active users (no BS it was an old app sh*t) on the sites. Search within the area, by name, or by picture (if the cheater uses a different name). The algorithm is 97%-99% accuracy. SOOOOO Many dads on here.


only idiots use their real name and emails on those sites. you aren't going to find a guy/gal using a fake name that signed up with a visa gift card and a burner email account (you know 99% of them).



Don't think you understand how the app works.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:ttps://www.cheaterbuster.net

Works like a charm. Scans every dating app. only active users (no BS it was an old app sh*t) on the sites. Search within the area, by name, or by picture (if the cheater uses a different name). The algorithm is 97%-99% accuracy. SOOOOO Many dads on here.


only idiots use their real name and emails on those sites. you aren't going to find a guy/gal using a fake name that signed up with a visa gift card and a burner email account (you know 99% of them).


Yep.

Caveats
This search can only find their profile if they used their real name and age.
To find a profile with a fake name, you’d have to go by location, show all profiles for that area, and look through the pictures.
If they also lied about their age, you’d have to repeat the search for all feasible ages they could have used.



There is an option to scan photos of men in the area. No need for name or age.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Can't fly drones within 15 miles of DC and 15-30 miles have special regulations

So keep having you drone-free affairs from Rockville to Lake Ridge

https://dronelife.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Screen-Shot-2016-02-10-at-11.35.00-AM.png

https://www.faa.gov/uas/resources/community_engagement/no_drone_zone/dc/

https://www.vice.com/en/article/mg7adn/the-faa-shut-down-every-drone-club-within-30-miles-of-washington-dc



What? My neighbor uses one.


If they get caught the fine is hefty!


Go to Jones Point on the weekends- there are always people flying drones. Not sayin it's right but I think most people don't know it's illegal.
Anonymous
One of the best ways is if you can get their google sign-in and password. Then you can go to my/google and if you're lucky, you can see everywhere they have been going way back, read and even listen to all talk-to-text messages or anytime they have used voice commands, web sites they have visited, and a lot more. I learned everything I needed to know about the previous two years of her activities and it blew her mind trying to figure out how I knew.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Can't fly drones within 15 miles of DC and 15-30 miles have special regulations

So keep having you drone-free affairs from Rockville to Lake Ridge

https://dronelife.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Screen-Shot-2016-02-10-at-11.35.00-AM.png

https://www.faa.gov/uas/resources/community_engagement/no_drone_zone/dc/

https://www.vice.com/en/article/mg7adn/the-faa-shut-down-every-drone-club-within-30-miles-of-washington-dc



What? My neighbor uses one.


If they get caught the fine is hefty!


Go to Jones Point on the weekends- there are always people flying drones. Not sayin it's right but I think most people don't know it's illegal.
Can you nerds stay with the subject? We don't care how much you know about drones or FAA regulations.
Anonymous
It's easier to just leave. If you need to invest in a drone to catch someone cheating, just leave. Oh, and courts don't care about cheating so there's that.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It's easier to just leave. If you need to invest in a drone to catch someone cheating, just leave. Oh, and courts don't care about cheating so there's that.


Yes and no. My sil's judge was definitely more favorable to her upon knowing her husband cheated and moved in with the AP. Either way, I wouldn't use a drone, simply have them followed. Or gps. Before I divorced I would want concrete evidence. Then there's no lies and you know you did the right thing.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A lot of this advice is way over the top, I mean drones..

Someone isn't going to use their real name and will call the AP from their work phone etc.

Easiest method was how my friend caught her pos DH. Small gps/magnet under their car. He was parking his car at random places before work and after for a hour or two. Mostly public shopping lots etc. The AP would pick him off and drop him off. All the wife had to do was be in the vicinity of his car to see who was dropping him off.


Yes. This would have caught my POS ex. He learned how to fake his iPhone locator to show he was other places, but a GPS magnet would have caught him at her house during his lunch hour.

Unfortunately, I had ZERO reason to even think he was cheating since we were having sex 4 times per week and there were no signs at all.

They never used phone/text. Started with a burner email and fake name in dating site. But- they then used Skype chat/messaging so there was no trace on phone bills.

Dirty cheaters are always one step ahead. Lying f@cks.



Having sex with your spouse doesn't mean anything. Cheaters have different morals/values which they can easily mask. Why many cheaters pick naive spouses. They are often predatory individuals. There's a reason they pick a individual they can fool.

I was with a cheater back in the pager days. First clue was being overly secretive with his pager, and promptly erasing the numbers. Other signs, but I bought a pager exactly like his. Even put a few scratch marks on mine, then switched them both out for a few days at a time. He was getting a code from someone, not the full number. That prompted me to follow him in my friends car, yep we caught him right away.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A lot of this advice is way over the top, I mean drones..

Someone isn't going to use their real name and will call the AP from their work phone etc.

Easiest method was how my friend caught her pos DH. Small gps/magnet under their car. He was parking his car at random places before work and after for a hour or two. Mostly public shopping lots etc. The AP would pick him off and drop him off. All the wife had to do was be in the vicinity of his car to see who was dropping him off.


Yes. This would have caught my POS ex. He learned how to fake his iPhone locator to show he was other places, but a GPS magnet would have caught him at her house during his lunch hour.

Unfortunately, I had ZERO reason to even think he was cheating since we were having sex 4 times per week and there were no signs at all.

They never used phone/text. Started with a burner email and fake name in dating site. But- they then used Skype chat/messaging so there was no trace on phone bills.

Dirty cheaters are always one step ahead. Lying f@cks.



Having sex with your spouse doesn't mean anything. Cheaters have different morals/values which they can easily mask. Why many cheaters pick naive spouses. They are often predatory individuals. There's a reason they pick a individual they can fool.

I was with a cheater back in the pager days. First clue was being overly secretive with his pager, and promptly erasing the numbers. Other signs, but I bought a pager exactly like his. Even put a few scratch marks on mine, then switched them both out for a few days at a time. He was getting a code from someone, not the full number. That prompted me to follow him in my friends car, yep we caught him right away.


Stop. The spouses are not naive. Quit spreading falsehood. These f@cks are borderline that fool everyone. Someone in a 20+ year marriage with a spouse that is always where they are supposed to be, not spending nights or weekends away USE the persons trust against them. Nobody spends 20 years of marriage when they have jobs and kids with gos magnets on their spouses cars or key loggers on their computers. You can have their phone passwords and not find anything. It’s 2021.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A lot of this advice is way over the top, I mean drones..

Someone isn't going to use their real name and will call the AP from their work phone etc.

Easiest method was how my friend caught her pos DH. Small gps/magnet under their car. He was parking his car at random places before work and after for a hour or two. Mostly public shopping lots etc. The AP would pick him off and drop him off. All the wife had to do was be in the vicinity of his car to see who was dropping him off.


Yes. This would have caught my POS ex. He learned how to fake his iPhone locator to show he was other places, but a GPS magnet would have caught him at her house during his lunch hour.

Unfortunately, I had ZERO reason to even think he was cheating since we were having sex 4 times per week and there were no signs at all.

They never used phone/text. Started with a burner email and fake name in dating site. But- they then used Skype chat/messaging so there was no trace on phone bills.

Dirty cheaters are always one step ahead. Lying f@cks.



Having sex with your spouse doesn't mean anything. Cheaters have different morals/values which they can easily mask. Why many cheaters pick naive spouses. They are often predatory individuals. There's a reason they pick a individual they can fool.

I was with a cheater back in the pager days. First clue was being overly secretive with his pager, and promptly erasing the numbers. Other signs, but I bought a pager exactly like his. Even put a few scratch marks on mine, then switched them both out for a few days at a time. He was getting a code from someone, not the full number. That prompted me to follow him in my friends car, yep we caught him right away.


Stop. The spouses are not naive. Quit spreading falsehood. These f@cks are borderline that fool everyone. Someone in a 20+ year marriage with a spouse that is always where they are supposed to be, not spending nights or weekends away USE the persons trust against them. Nobody spends 20 years of marriage when they have jobs and kids with gos magnets on their spouses cars or key loggers on their computers. You can have their phone passwords and not find anything. It’s 2021.


She had me at 'pager days' . Yeah pre-smart phone, pre-email, pre-interent (much less pre-craigslist and pre-internet dating sites, pre-affair websites), pre Skype and messaging systems that leave ZERO trace on a phone bill or a text trail. You can have your spouse's email and phone passwords and you won't find anything. Cheaters don't even use their phones or text to communicate, honey. They can hack their iphone location. You and Nancy Drew aren't going to find evidence like the old 'pager days'. There is nothing physical to show. Cheating rates have risen, particularly among women because it is so easy these days. A SAHM who wouldn't have any means to find a co-worker to bang or a man IRL has the entire world wide web to find her AP from the couch.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A lot of this advice is way over the top, I mean drones..

Someone isn't going to use their real name and will call the AP from their work phone etc.

Easiest method was how my friend caught her pos DH. Small gps/magnet under their car. He was parking his car at random places before work and after for a hour or two. Mostly public shopping lots etc. The AP would pick him off and drop him off. All the wife had to do was be in the vicinity of his car to see who was dropping him off.


Yes. This would have caught my POS ex. He learned how to fake his iPhone locator to show he was other places, but a GPS magnet would have caught him at her house during his lunch hour.

Unfortunately, I had ZERO reason to even think he was cheating since we were having sex 4 times per week and there were no signs at all.

They never used phone/text. Started with a burner email and fake name in dating site. But- they then used Skype chat/messaging so there was no trace on phone bills.

Dirty cheaters are always one step ahead. Lying f@cks.



Having sex with your spouse doesn't mean anything. Cheaters have different morals/values which they can easily mask. Why many cheaters pick naive spouses. They are often predatory individuals. There's a reason they pick a individual they can fool.

I was with a cheater back in the pager days. First clue was being overly secretive with his pager, and promptly erasing the numbers. Other signs, but I bought a pager exactly like his. Even put a few scratch marks on mine, then switched them both out for a few days at a time. He was getting a code from someone, not the full number. That prompted me to follow him in my friends car, yep we caught him right away.


Stop. The spouses are not naive. Quit spreading falsehood. These f@cks are borderline that fool everyone. Someone in a 20+ year marriage with a spouse that is always where they are supposed to be, not spending nights or weekends away USE the persons trust against them. Nobody spends 20 years of marriage when they have jobs and kids with gos magnets on their spouses cars or key loggers on their computers. You can have their phone passwords and not find anything. It’s 2021.


She had me at 'pager days' . Yeah pre-smart phone, pre-email, pre-interent (much less pre-craigslist and pre-internet dating sites, pre-affair websites), pre Skype and messaging systems that leave ZERO trace on a phone bill or a text trail. You can have your spouse's email and phone passwords and you won't find anything. Cheaters don't even use their phones or text to communicate, honey. They can hack their iphone location. You and Nancy Drew aren't going to find evidence like the old 'pager days'. There is nothing physical to show. Cheating rates have risen, particularly among women because it is so easy these days. A SAHM who wouldn't have any means to find a co-worker to bang or a man IRL has the entire world wide web to find her AP from the couch.


Read comprehension and the point which you missed. I agree with all the messaging systems etc. Waste of time. Simply have them followed which will nip it quickly, and/or use gps. Easy to catch a cheater then and now.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A lot of this advice is way over the top, I mean drones..

Someone isn't going to use their real name and will call the AP from their work phone etc.

Easiest method was how my friend caught her pos DH. Small gps/magnet under their car. He was parking his car at random places before work and after for a hour or two. Mostly public shopping lots etc. The AP would pick him off and drop him off. All the wife had to do was be in the vicinity of his car to see who was dropping him off.


Yes. This would have caught my POS ex. He learned how to fake his iPhone locator to show he was other places, but a GPS magnet would have caught him at her house during his lunch hour.

Unfortunately, I had ZERO reason to even think he was cheating since we were having sex 4 times per week and there were no signs at all.

They never used phone/text. Started with a burner email and fake name in dating site. But- they then used Skype chat/messaging so there was no trace on phone bills.

Dirty cheaters are always one step ahead. Lying f@cks.



Having sex with your spouse doesn't mean anything. Cheaters have different morals/values which they can easily mask. Why many cheaters pick naive spouses. They are often predatory individuals. There's a reason they pick a individual they can fool.

I was with a cheater back in the pager days. First clue was being overly secretive with his pager, and promptly erasing the numbers. Other signs, but I bought a pager exactly like his. Even put a few scratch marks on mine, then switched them both out for a few days at a time. He was getting a code from someone, not the full number. That prompted me to follow him in my friends car, yep we caught him right away.


Stop. The spouses are not naive. Quit spreading falsehood. These f@cks are borderline that fool everyone. Someone in a 20+ year marriage with a spouse that is always where they are supposed to be, not spending nights or weekends away USE the persons trust against them. Nobody spends 20 years of marriage when they have jobs and kids with gos magnets on their spouses cars or key loggers on their computers. You can have their phone passwords and not find anything. It’s 2021.


She had me at 'pager days' . Yeah pre-smart phone, pre-email, pre-interent (much less pre-craigslist and pre-internet dating sites, pre-affair websites), pre Skype and messaging systems that leave ZERO trace on a phone bill or a text trail. You can have your spouse's email and phone passwords and you won't find anything. Cheaters don't even use their phones or text to communicate, honey. They can hack their iphone location. You and Nancy Drew aren't going to find evidence like the old 'pager days'. There is nothing physical to show. Cheating rates have risen, particularly among women because it is so easy these days. A SAHM who wouldn't have any means to find a co-worker to bang or a man IRL has the entire world wide web to find her AP from the couch.


Read comprehension and the point which you missed. I agree with all the messaging systems etc. Waste of time. Simply have them followed which will nip it quickly, and/or use gps. Easy to catch a cheater then and now.


I think the point you are missing. Most often there are ZERO signs. Nobody is sitting around on their pager or phone and they aren't spending overnights or extended time at the Office. There is no reason to have them followed. The telltale 'signs' of yesteryear aren't there.
Anonymous
My friend hire a P.I. for a 3 hr. minimum. Believed he was seeing AP after work because of time gaps. Caught him the first time and paid very little.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A lot of this advice is way over the top, I mean drones..

Someone isn't going to use their real name and will call the AP from their work phone etc.

Easiest method was how my friend caught her pos DH. Small gps/magnet under their car. He was parking his car at random places before work and after for a hour or two. Mostly public shopping lots etc. The AP would pick him off and drop him off. All the wife had to do was be in the vicinity of his car to see who was dropping him off.


Yes. This would have caught my POS ex. He learned how to fake his iPhone locator to show he was other places, but a GPS magnet would have caught him at her house during his lunch hour.

Unfortunately, I had ZERO reason to even think he was cheating since we were having sex 4 times per week and there were no signs at all.

They never used phone/text. Started with a burner email and fake name in dating site. But- they then used Skype chat/messaging so there was no trace on phone bills.

Dirty cheaters are always one step ahead. Lying f@cks.



Having sex with your spouse doesn't mean anything. Cheaters have different morals/values which they can easily mask. Why many cheaters pick naive spouses. They are often predatory individuals. There's a reason they pick a individual they can fool.

I was with a cheater back in the pager days. First clue was being overly secretive with his pager, and promptly erasing the numbers. Other signs, but I bought a pager exactly like his. Even put a few scratch marks on mine, then switched them both out for a few days at a time. He was getting a code from someone, not the full number. That prompted me to follow him in my friends car, yep we caught him right away.


Stop. The spouses are not naive. Quit spreading falsehood. These f@cks are borderline that fool everyone. Someone in a 20+ year marriage with a spouse that is always where they are supposed to be, not spending nights or weekends away USE the persons trust against them. Nobody spends 20 years of marriage when they have jobs and kids with gos magnets on their spouses cars or key loggers on their computers. You can have their phone passwords and not find anything. It’s 2021.


She had me at 'pager days' . Yeah pre-smart phone, pre-email, pre-interent (much less pre-craigslist and pre-internet dating sites, pre-affair websites), pre Skype and messaging systems that leave ZERO trace on a phone bill or a text trail. You can have your spouse's email and phone passwords and you won't find anything. Cheaters don't even use their phones or text to communicate, honey. They can hack their iphone location. You and Nancy Drew aren't going to find evidence like the old 'pager days'. There is nothing physical to show. Cheating rates have risen, particularly among women because it is so easy these days. A SAHM who wouldn't have any means to find a co-worker to bang or a man IRL has the entire world wide web to find her AP from the couch.


Read comprehension and the point which you missed. I agree with all the messaging systems etc. Waste of time. Simply have them followed which will nip it quickly, and/or use gps. Easy to catch a cheater then and now.


I think the point you are missing. Most often there are ZERO signs. Nobody is sitting around on their pager or phone and they aren't spending overnights or extended time at the Office. There is no reason to have them followed. The telltale 'signs' of yesteryear aren't there.


Like the woman that 'pre-shops' and then at a later date and time tells her husband she is going shopping and brings home the stuff she bought earlier after banging her AP.

If she is acting the same at home, why would he follow her when she is doing something people do every day?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My friend hire a P.I. for a 3 hr. minimum. Believed he was seeing AP after work because of time gaps. Caught him the first time and paid very little.



There were time gaps. She had a reason to suspect. Nowadays with AM and the like, men/women are taking an hour during their work day and spouses are none the wiser since they show up after work reliably on time.
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