How do you know what “league” you’re in the dating market?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's simpler to categorize men: (1) Are they focused on what American culture defines as hot or (2) Are they open-minded about the type of woman they might have a spark of connection with and fall in love with.

What percentage of men fall in category 1? It's an interesting question!

Hotness is not about, "American culture." It's innate.

Women and men who turn heads on Main Street, USA, also turn heads on each of the world's continents.

We are at are happiest when we're with someone roughly as cute as we are (and everyone is cute in one way or another).

As a man, I'd encourage women to aim a little higher than you think you should, because you sometimes sell yourselves short. Go after that cute guy - you may be pleasantly surprised.

Best of luck

I look at couples, and the woman is the cuter one 90+% of the time. Maybe the cute women prioritize other things more that cuteness/hotness.

This is because women have way more ways to make themselves look better in terms of hair, makeup, and fashion style. They can take the plainest woman out there and with a makeover have her look 10x better.

Guys can do that too, with the right hairstyle and clothing choices. They usually don't even try. Women are still the cuter ones, regardless. Also, more men are fat than women:

Almost 3 in 4 men (73.7 percent) were considered to be overweight or have obesity; and about 2 in 3 women (66.9) were considered to be overweight or have obesity.

[Anonymous]

Honestly? These days, my league would probably be the same as Roy and Ishmael bowled in during "Kingpin."

[Anonymous]

I'm in the amateur league!