Does anyone have a healthy sex life with their spouse?
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Anonymous
| We are very happy and have always had a great sex life even with babies/little kids. I don't post about it because it' would be weird to make a post about that. |
Anonymous
| People post to relationship boards when they have a problem, so there's a selection bias you need to account for here. |
Anonymous
Agree. I never came to this board until I had a problem. I frequently was on other forums. |
Anonymous
| I do and we’ve been married for ages. We have a wonderful relationship and sex is just one part of it. |
Anonymous
| We did yesterday! It was awesome! |
Anonymous
| I did until low lying placenta with my 3rd pregnancy put an end to that. Can't even get an O. I can give one to him but he wants to hold out in "solidarity". |
Anonymous
| Absolutely! Hopefully he feels the same though I’m sure he’d like more frequency. But I’m very enthusiastic in bed and I can usually tire him out so he never complains. |
Anonymous
| +1 not going to post about everything being great. We've had an amazing sex life - got married at 30, 2 kids and 10 years later, we're now exploring new things, swinging, bdsm, still vanilla a few times a week. I'm always shocked by what I read here. |
Anonymous
| What a stupid question/post. Why don't you go to the infertility thread and ask why it seems like everyone is having trouble conceiving? |
Anonymous
| We’ve always had a healthy sex life but it has gotten even better as empty nesters. Pre-Covid we’d frequently travel and I’m very fond of hotel sex after a nice evening out. At home there are no inhibitions and that’s really opened things up. |
Anonymous
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^^Empty nest is the best!!!!!^^
Especially on rainy gloomy days like this |
Anonymous
| 6 years of marriage. 11 years together. Three kids 5 and under. We have sex once a week ( usually FRIDAY or Saturday). |
Anonymous
| Yes--absolutely. 10 years married, 15 years together, 3 kids. The sex has only gotten better and better. We're opportunistic (kids totally engrossed in a show on saturday morning? We'll be right back) and both really invested in what makes the other feel good. It's our go-to stress buster and ranges from quickies to just relaxing/fun to completely mind-blowing. |
Anonymous
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13 years married, 16 years together. Four kids.
It depends on which one of us you ask. We have sex 3-4 times/week. It’s mostly pretty good, sometimes amazing. We do a lot of light bondage and role play. He would like to do more anal and include other people. I’m not interested in either. I think our sex life os pretty good. He feels like it’s lacking. |
Anonymous
| Better since Covid forced us to stop over scheduling kid’s activities. |