Married friend made an advance? Or was it nothing?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Really surprised to see so many posters saying that women and men can’t be friends. It’s not the 1800s, people.

I’ve had lunch 3-4 times a year for the past ten years with a married guy friend and there has never been anything more than a friendly hug. We talk about our families our jobs and whatever comes to mind. I know his wife and he knows my husband and our lunches pre-date me meeting my husband. There are decent guys out there.

He's probably just too chicken to make a move or he finds you unattractive. But he's considered it, and it has nothing to do with his morals.

PP - I’m definitely on the attractive side so you can rule that out. His wife is more attractive than me and he seems very happy. He has too many things going well in his life to want to screw it up.

[Anonymous]

Shut it down.


And yea theres no such thing as platonic friendships between men and women. You'll notice ugly women seldom experience these "platonic" friendships

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Shut it down.


And yea theres no such thing as platonic friendships between men and women. You'll notice ugly women seldom experience these "platonic" friendships

This is only situation where it can happen!

[Anonymous]

I was going to respond that the forehead kiss sounds brotherly/awkward, not sexual. But apparently in both of your cultures it's a big deal? So yes, apparently it's a big deal.