Awful experiences at School?

[Anonymous]

I don’t know if any of you will see this, but thank you so much for your words of support (or criticism, equally valid)! I was probably being hyperbolic when mentioning an actual lawsuit, so I apologize. I guess that I just wanted to vent and say how much those experiences hurt me. I have a great life and family, and for the first time in my life, very recently, in therapy I have started to feel angry and not totally responsible for everything I’ve experienced. (Sorry for that horribly constructed sentence!). So this is the first time in my life that I’m blaming someone other than myself, which is confusing and made me want to speak/write.

Again, thank you so much for responding and for everyone who could relate, I am so sorry and I wish you so much happiness and healing!

[Anonymous]

Sorry, above was OP ❤️

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In 8th grade a boy told me on the bus to an xc meet that he was going to forcefully “come up inside of me and f*ck me.” I told my parents and at the next meet when he took pictures of me in our school cardigan and my xc uniform (I lost my hoodie) and he posted them online (I’m in my 20s now), my dad cornered him, pushed him up against a tree, and told him he’d be scared for his life if he ever bothered me again. He never bothered me again.


Also in 8th, a boy threw a very large rock at my head at the bus stop. 10+ kids saw it, it hurt like hell, etc. The next day my dad randomly said he was driving me to school instead of having me take the bus. I looked over and realized we were at the bus stop. My dad runs out of the car and threatens the kids to fess up.

Thanks for sharing this. We have 4 girls (all young) and my DH talks about how he will do $hit like what your dad did if our girls get hassled. I thought it would make him look crazy and our girls would hate him (and also I don’t like physical confrontations) but I see that it stopped your harassment. I guess I will stop hassling my DH when he says stuff like that.

I’m sorry for all those who were harassed and bullied. I was, too, but it just made me draw into myself And my own head and the nastiness sort of all rolled off my back, so I don’t have any major scars.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In 8th grade a boy told me on the bus to an xc meet that he was going to forcefully “come up inside of me and f*ck me.” I told my parents and at the next meet when he took pictures of me in our school cardigan and my xc uniform (I lost my hoodie) and he posted them online (I’m in my 20s now), my dad cornered him, pushed him up against a tree, and told him he’d be scared for his life if he ever bothered me again. He never bothered me again.


Also in 8th, a boy threw a very large rock at my head at the bus stop. 10+ kids saw it, it hurt like hell, etc. The next day my dad randomly said he was driving me to school instead of having me take the bus. I looked over and realized we were at the bus stop. My dad runs out of the car and threatens the kids to fess up.

Thanks for sharing this. We have 4 girls (all young) and my DH talks about how he will do $hit like what your dad did if our girls get hassled. I thought it would make him look crazy and our girls would hate him (and also I don’t like physical confrontations) but I see that it stopped your harassment. I guess I will stop hassling my DH when he says stuff like that.

I’m sorry for all those who were harassed and bullied. I was, too, but it just made me draw into myself And my own head and the nastiness sort of all rolled off my back, so I don’t have any major scars.

I think your DH sounds sweet. Just don’t let him actually do anything physical! LOL!

[Anonymous]

Similar experience in an “excellent” public school.

Kids are just assholes..