I feel like I was sexually assaulted

[Anonymous]

You are certainly entitled to feel the way you do. What do you want to do about it? If he hasn’t shown you any other red flags, I think you need to talk to him and see how he responds. It’s tough, because this is a bit of a gray area seeing as you have an established situation and presumably he doesn’t normally ask for consent every time.

[Anonymous]

I can’t believe the excuses that people make for sexual assault.

OP you need to seek help from a place that isn’t filled with anonymous rape apologists. I’m serious.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m so sorry to hear it. Please take all the support, and leave the rest.

Leave him alone he’s sketchy.

I’m a lawyer. He’s not going to get charged with anything. I’m not judging whether he should or shouldn’t. It hardly matters. Just expect this would be an uphill battle at best. Move on I would suggest.

Please get therapy and support from only those whom you know would believe you and be sympathetic.
Last thing you need is a mixed bag of opinions driving you crazier, as on here.

Please again take the support. And leave the rest. In fact I would stop reading this thread. Isn’t it torture?

Lots of luck. Hugs.

Thank you. I appreciate the support. I never intended this post to imply i wanted him charged with anything. All I wanted was some help processing how terrible I feel tonight. I can't quite put my finger on it, but it's probably the feeling of powerlessness that i felt for years as an abused child. That's how I was feeling as it was happening - powerless.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe the excuses that people make for sexual assault.

OP you need to seek help from a place that isn’t filled with anonymous rape apologists. I’m serious.

Thank you. I'm going to log off tonight and try to sleep this terrible feeling off.

[Anonymous]

I would suggest that the therapy for your past sexual abuse didn't quite do the trick.