How to change DH's mind on weight?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd buy him an anorexic blow up doll, tell him to kiss my ass and put him on pxxxy restriction.

ROFLMAO!!! I would tell him the same thing even if I were 15 lbs overweight. What an ass! I would find a huge muscle man and tell your hubby that he needs to look like him!

[Anonymous]

Here you go: http://gawker.com/5445184/new-lifelike-sex-doll-is-still-weird-not-lifelike

Only a 120 pounds... much better right?

[Anonymous]

Maybe you should tone up. Just bc you are "thin" doesn't mean you look good.

[Anonymous]

That is ridiculous. You are well within normal paramaters for your height/weight ratio.

Talk to your doctor, take him with you, and have the doctor tell you you are healthy.

Meanwhile I'd look for a new husband.

[Anonymous]

How to change his mind?

I don't know--it sounds like he has a narcissistic and obsessive personality disorder. Maybe some therapy would be helpful.

What he's doing to you is dangerously close to being abusive. Show him the facts (i.e. low-normal BMI) and tell him to back off.

[Anonymous]

*You* do not have to "change his mind." He has to change his mind. Seriously.

Tell him what you think, then give it time to see how he internalizes what you tell him.

After that, stand up to him (pretend you're *insert strong woman here* Maybe Hillary Clinton -- you can bet Bill got a hot earful). Tell him to back off. His attitude was hurtful at first, and now you're starting to get angry, wondering if he's actually a jerk.