Dating strong men

Anonymous
In on line dating I find it best to meet a lot of men once and not read too much into their profiles.
Anonymous

If he's on steroids, you'll have to worry about 'Roid Rage - especially when you point and laugh at his shrunken little bits.
Anonymous
I’m 5’7” and I used to date someone 6’7”. For the modtpart I liked it. It was great when I wanted to wear very high heels, but in flats, when he would go to put his arm around me and pull me towards him, it was often around my upper shoulders or neck, which wasn’t comfortable or sexy.
Anonymous
6'5", 230 here and I probably do lose out on some women because of my size but I have attracted a few who have a tall fetish.
Anonymous
I'm 5'2" and got along extremely well with my 6'4" partner. Be creative.
Anonymous
5’1” here since graduating High School haven’t dated guy under 6’0. Had a college boyfriend that was 6’4 and later was engaged to a guy who was 6’3 (didn’t marry for other reasons). I personally like them tall.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I received a message online from a man on a dating site. It was a very thoughtful message and then near the end he said something alone the lines of just before you look at my profile, I wanted to mention that some women find my appearance intimidating. Just know that I am a softie at heart and a really gentle person (I am paraphrasing).

I go look at his profile and he is a mountain of a man. Height was 6'7" and he just has a really big frame, is muscular, has an angular face, and looks like an action figure. (Maybe kind of like The Rock's size). It was intimidating and honestly, even though he seemed like a nice guy, his size was a turn off for me. I felt bad for him since he feels the need to let women know he isn't scary but his physique is just a little scary. It wasn't so much that I had fear of being hurt although his size would make me feel a little vulnerable but more that it would be like he would roll over and crush me and that his strength / size was just too much. I think I like to feel a little more of an equal (even if I am weaker) in terms of strength. This felt to me like I would be a small child - big adult feeling in terms of strength.
Then I felt a little guilty as my response was pretty superficial and this guy obviously has a hard time getting past a first message due to his size. I am average height and weight so not super petite but he would tower over me.

Have other women dated really big strong men?

Probably a fake profile pic. Guys like that have no trouble getting dates.


Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Op here. I don't even really have a type but I think 300 lbs of muscle is just too much for me. I don't mind muscular men but a guy that size - I don't even know if he can really hold someone small - his chest and arm muscles look like it would be hard to cross his arms!

It also makes me think steroids - although who knows he could just be naturally a big guy who goes to the gym.

I have watched those strong men competitions. I am a little in awe of their strength but I just don't find that Viking build to be what I think I want in a guy. Then again, I have never dated a guy his size so who knows!


I’d be into it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think that men who are 6'7" and muscular probably don't have much trouble getting dates.

There's a cut-off point for alot of women where a guy can actually be TOO tall.


+1. No shorter than 5'10; however, 6'3 is my height limit. I am 5'6
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