What should I do?

[Anonymous]

Perhaps I misunderstood, are you saying that she didn’t disclose that she was out of status when she asked you for help?

Until she moves out, she’s your problem. Can’t you see the issue?

[Anonymous]

If she couldn’t renew her lease because of her illegal status, how do you expect her to find a new apartment that will rent to her. Good luck getting her out now short of reporting her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just marry her, that's what a real friend would do.

^ This guy above gets it. In fact, your hesitation to marry her makes me suspect that you might be some kind of racist or misogynist, or maybe even some combination of the two.

You OWE it to her: get married. After the divorce, you can give her the house. Then you can rest, knowing that you fulfilled your civic and spousal obligations.

[Anonymous]

1. No, she told me she is out of status when she asked to stay at my place, but I thought it won't be an issue if she just stay briefly. Yes, I know the issue persists unless she moves out.

2. The apartment she used to live requires legal status. There are so many undocumented workers in DC, where do they live? It seems not that hard to find a place, right? I'm pretty ignorant regarding these issues...

To those rude trolls, get out my post and face your own miserable life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. No, she told me she is out of status when she asked to stay at my place, but I thought it won't be an issue if she just stay briefly. Yes, I know the issue persists unless she moves out.

2. The apartment she used to live requires legal status. There are so many undocumented workers in DC, where do they live? It seems not that hard to find a place, right? I'm pretty ignorant regarding these issues...

To those rude trolls, get out my post and face your own miserable life.

Your place is much nicer than where the illegal immigrants that can’t sign a standard lease live...trust me. And she likely is aware of this. She is living with you until she finds another friend to take her in or her status changes.

[Anonymous]

OP, she needs to move out because that is the only way you will ever know if the "i love you" is real, or for the visa.

If she really loves you, she moves out, and/or moves home, and then comes back.

Just have her move out. Let's see what she does after that.

[Anonymous]

Depending on what type of security clearance you have, you may need to report cohabitation to your Agency's security office. (You would have to with a secret clearance at least, for example.) Start by asking that question.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, she needs to move out because that is the only way you will ever know if the "i love you" is real, or for the visa.

If she really loves you, she moves out, and/or moves home, and then comes back.

Just have her move out. Let's see what she does after that.

OMG, ILU is the least of his problems.

[Anonymous]

OP,

How do you know she didn’t mean that she loves you like a sibling?

Also if she really does love you romantically and isn’t just saying that to stay in the country, would that make a difference for you? In other words, do you love her?

[Anonymous]

Only one way to find out if she's your soul mate. Go for it. You are young, have fun.

Don't have her move out unless you can find her a place where someone is looking for a roommate. Is she working? Does she have money to pay rent?

[Anonymous]

You should move.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Perhaps I misunderstood, are you saying that she didn’t disclose that she was out of status when she asked you for help?

Until she moves out, she’s your problem. Can’t you see the issue?

Why is she his problem? ICE comes knocking, he plays dumb. They didn't mess with businesses that employed 200 illegals, why would they mess with him. What country is she from? ICE isnt hunting all illegals. Believe me there are plenty of eastern Europeans here past their visas and they hold jobs and no one bothers them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. No, she told me she is out of status when she asked to stay at my place, but I thought it won't be an issue if she just stay briefly. Yes, I know the issue persists unless she moves out.

2. The apartment she used to live requires legal status. There are so many undocumented workers in DC, where do they live? It seems not that hard to find a place, right? I'm pretty ignorant regarding these issues...

To those rude trolls, get out my post and face your own miserable life.

I’m also a fed employee and I don’t see how point 1 isn’t a huge issue. You knew she was breaking the law and offered her a place to stay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are people really this stupid? I worry for our government if these are the people employed there.

No need to insult me, if you have a friend as for a little help, would you say no? I didn't think that much then. Now it seems complicated, so I don't know what should I do...

You’ve ruined your chances at getting a security clearance. They ask if you’ve have contact with any foreign nationals and investigate them.

Your girlfriend broke up with you because you let another woman move in.

You were just dumped and you’re already looking for a new relationship.

A woman you barely know who wants a green card is telling you she loves you.

This isn’t rocket science.

I seriously can't believe he has to ask for advice on this one.

If he's having sex or has sex she will get pregnant. That will be to her advantage.