How to look high-end at work

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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:1. Think classic, well made, proper fitting clothing. Ex: Brooks Brothers, Pendleton, Talbots. Invest in some basic pieces that you can build upon.
2. Choose color palettes that look good on you, but as a general rule pick black and/or navy as your basic colors and work off of them. Get a nice black/navy 3 piece suit (jacket, skirt, pants). Add in some silk blend tops and non iron button downs in colors that look nice on you. Don’t go for a lot of colors though. No patterns except maybe one or two here and there.
3. Get a couple of twinsets that you can wear with a black/navy skirt/pants.
4. Good haircut, smooth, shiny hair regardless of color.
5. Nice, subtle makeup. Go to a makeup counter for help.
6. Some good quality, simple pieces of jewelry. Better to
Wear the same pearl earrings everyday and have them look nice than cheap jewelry.
7. Buy some good shoes and a nice bag. You’re going to have to spend $ here. Don’t skimp. Think Ferragamo.


How old are you, OP? This look above might work for some but I feel like it's for 60+ women (with apologies to all the stylish 60+ women I know). This list could have been drafted 30 years ago. Fashion has moved on, even for professional women. I'm a lawyer and I never dress like this. It's hard to advise because we don't know anything about your size, shape, age, profession, and also what you like.


Then, what would you add or change about what the PP shared?

Many years ago, I was at a think tank where there were only two tiers: admin and scholars. I had to change my look over a weekend, when I realized that my look was more "admin" (whatever that meant at the time) than "scholar." I only bought a few pieces, followed the PP's general advice, and finished out my year there. The staff was amazing and resourceful. It was not an insult to be mistaken for an administrator, it's just that I would miss out on invitations to presentations or collaborative work. Once I had my sling backs and sheath dress, I started being taken a lot more seriously.

I'm now a Consultant, wearing leggings and a tunic-length t-shirt while teleworking.



Well twinset and pearls have to go. And the 3 piece suit as well, with the silk blend tops and button downs. The suit may or may not be necessary depending on what OP actually does but for most women nowadays a suit is unnecessary. An elegant dress is usually better. Button down shirts - I never ever wear these because my boobs make this look very unattractive. But of course that is body-shape dependent. As I said, it's hard to advise without knowing more about OP. But I would suggest thinking about dresses, a few separates that can be switched around and matched. These are expensive options but for an idea, look at The Fold https://thefoldlondon.com/ and Cefinn https://www.cefinn.com/us/
Anonymous
--LulaRoe leggings
--essential oil samples for your co-workers
--a poster in your office that says "wife to Logan. Mommy to Adyn. Servant to the Lord."
Anonymous
Make an appointment with trunk club
Anonymous
Do not wear pearls or twin sets!!

A dress like this would be modern and appropriate. Alexander McQueen doesn’t generally make work wear but this is the type of thing highly paid stylish women now wear

https://weselectdresses.com/product/alexander-mcqueen-draped-crepe-short-sleeved-pink-dress/
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Do not wear pearls or twin sets!!

A dress like this would be modern and appropriate. Alexander McQueen doesn’t generally make work wear but this is the type of thing highly paid stylish women now wear

https://weselectdresses.com/product/alexander-mcqueen-draped-crepe-short-sleeved-pink-dress/


Disagree on the pearls- i think they are nice but twin sets don't look good on anyone.

And that dress is gorgeous!! I want it now
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:--LulaRoe leggings
--essential oil samples for your co-workers
--a poster in your office that says "wife to Logan. Mommy to Adyn. Servant to the Lord."


Perfect.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Blonde hair. Fresh manicure. Well fitting clothes. 3 inch heels. Size 8 or smaller.


Um, what?


+1 Only if you're working at the Trump administration. The rest of the world values people of different races.
Anonymous
Thanks to the PP who posted The Fold https://thefoldlondon.com/ and Cefinn https://www.cefinn.com/us/ -- any other ideas? I particularly like The Fold & wonder what else you'd recommend. Not OP, just hijacking.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Blonde hair. Fresh manicure. Well fitting clothes. 3 inch heels. Size 8 or smaller.


That sounds "high end" maybe, but not for a 9-5 job. Especially the 3 inch heels.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:solid colors, monochrome, pencil skirts, high quality statement jewelry, non-frizzy hair, a little makeup, the best shoes and purse you can afford.


That's pretty much what everyone wears and they still don't look high end. It's just dull office wear.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Blonde hair. Fresh manicure. Well fitting clothes. 3 inch heels. Size 8 or smaller.


Sure if you wanna look like a ho, but OP said high end.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Blonde hair. Fresh manicure. Well fitting clothes. 3 inch heels. Size 8 or smaller.


Sure if you wanna look like a ho, but OP said high end.


LOL! Why are some women obsessed with "fresh manicure"?! It really adds close to nothing to your look or class. It's often just a simulation of class, like a fake (or real) LV!
Anonymous
If you have dark skin, wear colors! Wearing navy and black all the time is so boring!!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:--LulaRoe leggings
--essential oil samples for your co-workers
--a poster in your office that says "wife to Logan. Mommy to Adyn. Servant to the Lord."


#momboss
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If you have dark skin, wear colors! Wearing navy and black all the time is so boring!!


Why only for dark skin? We pasty people can wear some color too
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