I have a crush on someone much younger than me and I feel gross about it

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:As long as she is not a minor, which she obviously isn't, and as long as she does not look like a child (small or no breasts, smallish hips, childlike appearance) it's fine to have a crush on her, it's probably even fine to act on it.


No more Asian women for me!


You don’t know what you are missing! They can do wonders in bed.


Keep your sick imaginings to yourself.
You approach me and I'll get you fired so fast it'll make your head spin.



LOL don’t worry. I only approach attractive women.


You better tell the OP to follow your example and start finding that 18 year-old intern real ugly real fast because if she makes a move she can kiss her job "bye-bye"
Anonymous
^ I am sure op knows the consequences of her actions.
Anonymous
Oh heavens the thought police are out in full force. You aren't allowed completely normal fantasies because someone finds it gross! She's old enough to be drafted to war, to vote, to sign contracts. Being sexually attracted to attractive 18 year olds is quite literally the most normal sexual thought, and is universal among men.

And one can enjoy a thought and fantasy without being a creeper. Of course.
Anonymous
As the mother of a teen lesbian, I am not disgusted by your lust for an 18 year old. I feel more strongly about your misuse of "I/Me" in the title of your post.

She is much younger than "I" am.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Oh heavens the thought police are out in full force. You aren't allowed completely normal fantasies because someone finds it gross! She's old enough to be drafted to war, to vote, to sign contracts. Being sexually attracted to attractive 18 year olds is quite literally the most normal sexual thought, and is universal among men.

And one can enjoy a thought and fantasy without being a creeper. Of course.


OP can be a creeper. She can entertain all kinds of lewd lascivious and lustful thoughts to her hearts content so long as she keeps that crap in her cranium.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:As the mother of a teen lesbian, I am not disgusted by your lust for an 18 year old. I feel more strongly about your misuse of "I/Me" in the title of your post.

She is much younger than "I" am.


OP here. Was written in haste, knew someone would call me out!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Oh heavens the thought police are out in full force. You aren't allowed completely normal fantasies because someone finds it gross! She's old enough to be drafted to war, to vote, to sign contracts. Being sexually attracted to attractive 18 year olds is quite literally the most normal sexual thought, and is universal among men.

And one can enjoy a thought and fantasy without being a creeper. Of course.


OP can be a creeper. She can entertain all kinds of lewd lascivious and lustful thoughts to her hearts content so long as she keeps that crap in her cranium.


Does having a crush = being a creeper? I think of these as two different scenarios.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Oh heavens the thought police are out in full force. You aren't allowed completely normal fantasies because someone finds it gross! She's old enough to be drafted to war, to vote, to sign contracts. Being sexually attracted to attractive 18 year olds is quite literally the most normal sexual thought, and is universal among men.

And one can enjoy a thought and fantasy without being a creeper. Of course.


OP can be a creeper. She can entertain all kinds of lewd lascivious and lustful thoughts to her hearts content so long as she keeps that crap in her cranium.


Does having a crush = being a creeper? I think of these as two different scenarios.


Subject to whatever interpretation you want. If you want it to mean normal, fine. If you want it to be gross like the OP, fine. Just make sure both of you and anyone else thinking about hitting on interns exercises good judgement and doesn't go that route.
Anonymous
I think you need to stay away from this one. 33 vs. 18 is a huge age difference, and there's a real power differential that makes this feel icky to me. I'd say exactly the same thing to a guy pondering the same thing.

If she were 22 and out of college, the answer might change.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:As long as you don't act on it, it's fine to fantasize, OP. Everyone has thoughts, and targets of such thoughts can be much older, younger, whichever gender, etc. Some teens can look mature beyond their years, too.

The quickest way to move on is to accept your feelings.


This. Accept it and it will help you move on.
The more you try to deny deny deny the more it will eat away

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:What does she look like?


Just stunning! Tallish, athletic, beautiful curly blonde hair, big brown eyes. And just a doll, so sweet. I feel ridiculous.


Just fantasize , get your toy out and enjoy! If it makes you feel better I fantasized about my OB
Anonymous
If Literotica is any guide, most young women have their first lesbian experience with an older woman, usually a teacher or an older woman at work.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If Literotica is any guide, most young women have their first lesbian experience with an older woman, usually a teacher or an older woman at work.


What’s literotica
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What does she look like?


Just stunning! Tallish, athletic, beautiful curly blonde hair, big brown eyes. And just a doll, so sweet. I feel ridiculous.



If she bends over and has a tattoo on her lower back she is fair game.


LOL. Tramp stamp!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:As the mother of a teen lesbian, I am not disgusted by your lust for an 18 year old. I feel more strongly about your misuse of "I/Me" in the title of your post.

She is much younger than "I" am.



You sound uptight. Get a life.
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