I have a crush on someone much younger than me and I feel gross about it

[Anonymous]

Do the 18 yr old a favor. Don't hit on her. Keep your sick thoughts to yourself.

[Anonymous]

Gross

[Anonymous]

Wow, women are harsh on each other. If a man confessed a crush on the 18 year old office hottie, the other men would look at him like he just confessed to liking pizza or fellatio. Who doesn't.

Op, it's normal as a sunrise, enjoy the crush

[Anonymous]

Normal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As long as she is not a minor, which she obviously isn't, and as long as she does not look like a child (small or no breasts, smallish hips, childlike appearance) it's fine to have a crush on her, it's probably even fine to act on it.

SO are you saying adult women who have small stature and small breasts and who look young are not real women? That men shouldn't be attracted to them?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What does she look like?

Just stunning! Tallish, athletic, beautiful curly blonde hair, big brown eyes. And just a doll, so sweet. I feel ridiculous.

If she bends over and has a tattoo on her lower back she is fair game.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do the 18 yr old a favor. Don't hit on her. Keep your sick thoughts to yourself.

Yes, please. I was an 18 year old intern once and a creepy older guy would hit on me and even took me out to lunch (I stupidly thought it was just in the name of networking) where he promptly harassed me about why I didn't have a boyfriend. It was incredibly awkward and I eventually told my boss, and that made it even more awkward because he told the creepy guy who then would make stupid comments about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow, women are harsh on each other. If a man confessed a crush on the 18 year old office hottie, the other men would look at him like he just confessed to liking pizza or fellatio. Who doesn't.

Op, it's normal as a sunrise, enjoy the crush

I'd think a man crushing on an 18 year old is gross too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do the 18 yr old a favor. Don't hit on her. Keep your sick thoughts to yourself.

Yes, please. I was an 18 year old intern once and a creepy older guy would hit on me and even took me out to lunch (I stupidly thought it was just in the name of networking) where he promptly harassed me about why I didn't have a boyfriend. It was incredibly awkward and I eventually told my boss, and that made it even more awkward because he told the creepy guy who then would make stupid comments about it.

This is OP (a woman!) and I wouldn’t hit on her. I don’t date at work, anyway, and I am all too aware of the power/life experience differential here. I would never do anything to make her feel uncomfortable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As long as she is not a minor, which she obviously isn't, and as long as she does not look like a child (small or no breasts, smallish hips, childlike appearance) it's fine to have a crush on her, it's probably even fine to act on it.

No more Asian women for me!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As long as she is not a minor, which she obviously isn't, and as long as she does not look like a child (small or no breasts, smallish hips, childlike appearance) it's fine to have a crush on her, it's probably even fine to act on it.

No more Asian women for me!

You don’t know what you are missing! They can do wonders in bed.

[Anonymous]

Just don't act on it OP. Many people have crushes. Enjoy the dream but please don't tell any of your co-workers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As long as she is not a minor, which she obviously isn't, and as long as she does not look like a child (small or no breasts, smallish hips, childlike appearance) it's fine to have a crush on her, it's probably even fine to act on it.

No more Asian women for me!

You don’t know what you are missing! They can do wonders in bed.

Keep your sick imaginings to yourself.
You approach me and I'll get you fired so fast it'll make your head spin.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As long as she is not a minor, which she obviously isn't, and as long as she does not look like a child (small or no breasts, smallish hips, childlike appearance) it's fine to have a crush on her, it's probably even fine to act on it.

No more Asian women for me!

You don’t know what you are missing! They can do wonders in bed.

Keep your sick imaginings to yourself.
You approach me and I'll get you fired so fast it'll make your head spin.

LOL don’t worry. I only approach attractive women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow, women are harsh on each other. If a man confessed a crush on the 18 year old office hottie, the other men would look at him like he just confessed to liking pizza or fellatio. Who doesn't.

Op, it's normal as a sunrise, enjoy the crush

I'd think a man crushing on an 18 year old is gross too.

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