Feeling disrespected by both men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Good job OP. By staying with your husband, you've taught your kids that this behavior is ok. Don't be surprised when your son turns out just like him and your daughter ends up with an asshole for a husband.

I'll never understand women who willingly stay in relationships like these.

You have a good point. Life is complicated.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good job OP. By staying with your husband, you've taught your kids that this behavior is ok. Don't be surprised when your son turns out just like him and your daughter ends up with an asshole for a husband.

I'll never understand women who willingly stay in relationships like these.

You have a good point. Life is complicated.

+1. NP. Had many functional relationships prior, 3 year courtship, lots of emotional intimacy, but still didn't know my DH was a bigot until 8 years into marriage. F*ck.

[Anonymous]

You’re nuts, OP. Really need to get a life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You have stayed married to this man for 21 years. Your complaint period is over. He will not change. Accept it or divorce.

This. Sorry op.

[Anonymous]

“I adore my husband! He is a very successful CEO but when it comes to anything in our life other then his business everyone we deal with knows that I am the decision maker. It's not a hard ass thing it just makes our lives easy. “

How often do you tell people your husband is the successful one?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP is the one who sounds small and petty and tiresome. Why in the world does it matter that you even get a cashiers check (the last house I sold the money was wired to my account four hours after settlement) and why does it matter whose name is on the check if it's just getting deposited into another joint account?

+1. The check is just going to get cashed for your home purchase so who cares which name is on it? Husband's name was probably listed on the account first. Also, consider that rather than disrespecting you, the teller (who probably makes $10 an hour) just doesn't care and wanted to move you guys along.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m married to a jerk of a husband. We went to the bank together to get a 200K cashiers check for settlement Wednesday. I told the teller we wanted it in both our names. The teller looked directly at my husband, ignoring my request completely, and printed it with just my husbands name. In the parking lot I insisted we go back so I could have it printed the way I requested. We go back to the teller and this time he says only one person can be on the cashiers check, which is fine if that’s the policy. But the teller never explained it before, in fact he wouldn’t make eye contact with me. My husband not only sees nothing wrong with him ignoring me, he tells the teller he did absolutely nothing wrong as I explain he never mentioned such a policy. Little things like this all the time with my husband.

Seek therapy and a divorce lawyer ASAP. He's obviously cheating

[Anonymous]

2 checks, 100K each (one n each name). Done.

[Anonymous]

This stuff drives me BANANAS. I have a car that we bought together and that I signed first but all the computer systems put my husband first and I'm basically not even on there so every time I need to call insurance or go in for a repair they want to know where "steve" is. This general habit of people wanting to talk to the husband is very very annoying and dumb since my husband generally knows jack about what's going on in the household.