Feeling disrespected by both men.

[Anonymous]

Your husband is a jerk and you should consider leaving him once the kids are out of the house.

[Anonymous]

Both men sound miserable.

[Anonymous]

OP is the one who sounds small and petty and tiresome. Why in the world does it matter that you even get a cashiers check (the last house I sold the money was wired to my account four hours after settlement) and why does it matter whose name is on the check if it's just getting deposited into another joint account?

[Anonymous]

Should have got all singles. And brought a duffle bag boy.

[Anonymous]

You have stayed married to this man for 21 years. Your complaint period is over. He will not change. Accept it or divorce.

[Anonymous]

I've been married a long, long time and it has always driven me nuts when I'm on the phone dealing with an account issue and they need to speak with my husband to authorize a change. I am so lucky that when my husband gets on the line he wants to give them another butt hole. I had a very successful career and I'm like WTF when this happens.

[Anonymous]

I have had sales representatives ask to speak to my husband before I was even married or engaged! They always default to the man in the relationship and assume he is the breadwinner (in our home he is not).

[Anonymous]

Good job OP. By staying with your husband, you've taught your kids that this behavior is ok. Don't be surprised when your son turns out just like him and your daughter ends up with an asshole for a husband.

I'll never understand women who willingly stay in relationships like these.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've been married a long, long time and it has always driven me nuts when I'm on the phone dealing with an account issue and they need to speak with my husband to authorize a change. I am so lucky that when my husband gets on the line he wants to give them another butt hole. I had a very successful career and I'm like WTF when this happens.

I adore my husband! He is a very successful CEO but when it comes to anything in our life other then his business everyone we deal with knows that I am the decision maker. It's not a hard ass thing it just makes our lives easy.

[Anonymous]

He's controlling and abusive. DTMFA

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Good job OP. By staying with your husband, you've taught your kids that this behavior is ok. Don't be surprised when your son turns out just like him and your daughter ends up with an asshole for a husband.

I'll never understand women who willingly stay in relationships like these.

You married sexist jerk then complain he can’t possibly see why the cashier was a sexist jerk too. I can see you’re upset and rightly so. But you did marry an ignorant mofo

[Anonymous]

That's crazy. When you asked, the teller should've explained bank policy. Then ask which name you two preferred to be on the check. It's incredibly disrespectful for the teller to not answer your question and to automatically assume that husband's name should be on the check.

Hoped you talked to bank management.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP is the one who sounds small and petty and tiresome. Why in the world does it matter that you even get a cashiers check (the last house I sold the money was wired to my account four hours after settlement) and why does it matter whose name is on the check if it's just getting deposited into another joint account?

Congratulations on wiring money. Maybe if I was as smart as you I would have thought of that.

The title company preferred a cashiers check.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good job OP. By staying with your husband, you've taught your kids that this behavior is ok. Don't be surprised when your son turns out just like him and your daughter ends up with an asshole for a husband.

I'll never understand women who willingly stay in relationships like these.

You married sexist jerk then complain he can’t possibly see why the cashier was a sexist jerk too. I can see you’re upset and rightly so. But you did marry an ignorant mofo

You are correct. I did marry him 21 years ago, but I’m not dead yet. It’s possibly I could leave because it’s gotten worse over time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That's crazy. When you asked, the teller should've explained bank policy. Then ask which name you two preferred to be on the check. It's incredibly disrespectful for the teller to not answer your question and to automatically assume that husband's name should be on the check.

Hoped you talked to bank management.

I did, but the teller told management my spouse sides with him.