FRiend got proposed to with a 4 carat ring

Anonymous
Tacky
Anonymous
Heard from an Asian upper-class friend:

“Americans only care about the carat weight—they don’t care about cut or color or whether it looks beautiful. Caring about size is incredibly tacky.”
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I saved a mint buying the new lab grown diamond and the icing on the cake is conflict free. Fiancée loves it and has no idea.


Same. Told fiancée after wedding. She’s now proud it’s conflict free. Win win.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I saved a mint buying the new lab grown diamond and the icing on the cake is conflict free. Fiancée loves it and has no idea.


Her mother will figure it out and she’ll kill you!

Or her daughter after they both die. Happened to my good friend and she thought a lot less of her dad after that.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Size of diamond is inversely related to how long marriage lasts


Sounds like something poor people say. You sound like you are rationalizing your small ring.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Heard from an Asian upper-class friend:

“Americans only care about the carat weight—they don’t care about cut or color or whether it looks beautiful. Caring about size is incredibly tacky.”

Like they are all so perfectly styled all the time.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Size of diamond is inversely related to how long marriage lasts


And to the quality of sex while it lasts.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Heard from an Asian upper-class friend:

“Americans only care about the carat weight—they don’t care about cut or color or whether it looks beautiful. Caring about size is incredibly tacky.”


Yup, it's the same with everything.

-- Why did you bring that cheese (or wine or whatever), do you enjoy it?

-- It was $25 so it must be good.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I saved a mint buying the new lab grown diamond and the icing on the cake is conflict free. Fiancée loves it and has no idea.


Her mother will figure it out and she’ll kill you!

Or her daughter after they both die. Happened to my good friend and she thought a lot less of her dad after that.


Yeah almost like he embezeled money or killed someone.
Anonymous
If you want to be jealous over a ring -

Look at J Lo’s bauble from A-Rod.

Talk about “lucky girl.”
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I saved a mint buying the new lab grown diamond and the icing on the cake is conflict free. Fiancée loves it and has no idea.


Her mother will figure it out and she’ll kill you!

Or her daughter after they both die. Happened to my good friend and she thought a lot less of her dad after that.


She thought less of her dad for THAT? What a miserable human being she is.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Size of diamond is inversely related to how long marriage lasts


Oh come on. This sounds like a statement that jealous women make.


Np. I'd argue this is true. What's also true is the amount of money spent on the wedding is inversely proportional to how long tbe marriage lasts. I know of several 100+k weddings that were divorce finalized 2-3 years later.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If you want to be jealous over a ring -

Look at J Lo’s bauble from A-Rod.

Talk about “lucky girl.”


Lucky girl? He cheats on her. Pass.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I saved a mint buying the new lab grown diamond and the icing on the cake is conflict free. Fiancée loves it and has no idea.


Same. Told fiancée after wedding. She’s now proud it’s conflict free. Win win.


What kind of weenie tells his fiancé ‘after the wedding’. You’re going to have a terrible marriage with your manipulative communication style.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I saved a mint buying the new lab grown diamond and the icing on the cake is conflict free. Fiancée loves it and has no idea.


Her mother will figure it out and she’ll kill you!

Or her daughter after they both die. Happened to my good friend and she thought a lot less of her dad after that.


She thought less of her dad for THAT? What a miserable human being she is.


It’s dishonest, manipulative. If a man values cheapness over honesty I’d take a hard pass - that is very disappointing.
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