ONS- was it what you expected?

[Anonymous]

My one and only- I married him and it's still great.

[Anonymous]

It depends on the person.

The more you want someone, the better the sex is ime.

The best sex can be super vanilla if it’s with the right person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had a few. Once the guy didn’t complete. I have no idea why. Anyone?

Yep, happened to me a few times with ONS. Not used to wearing a condom, nervousness, and a little Viagra (which can delay getting off) combines for not being able to get there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DW in her 40s here. Had some ONS during grad school, nothing too exciting and some pretty disappointing. After being married for 10 years, found myself with a co-worker ONS. It was amazing , the best sex of my life, and now he is my AP.

That's not a ONE night stand, honey.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My one and only- I married him and it's still great.

Also not a ONS.

[Anonymous]

My last ONS ended up becoming a long term “thing” for more than two years. We are still going... Our ONS consisted of him finishing 6 times in a night. For real.

[Anonymous]

A lot of you are missing the O in your definition of ONS. It's one, as in, one time only. Not, we banged and now we've been married for ten years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A lot of you are missing the O in your definition of ONS. It's one, as in, one time only. Not, we banged and now we've been married for ten years.

Thanks Debbie Downer.

[Anonymous]

Some were very good, some were worth the effort and some were "how do I sneak out of here". No regrets though. Never know until you try.

[Anonymous]

i was on a role in college. Five in about six months (all those years of lifting weights was finally paying off). I loved it until one of those girls gave me wants. So it was a regret.

[Anonymous]

I have had a number of one night stands. The satisfaction level varies depending on what it is I'm looking for at the time. I find if I am looking for a man for an emotional connection that I am always left with a hollow, empty feeling. But if I'm only seeking a physical connection and find the right man, I am very seldom disapointed or left with a feeling of regret.

[Anonymous]

I’ve had a few ONS, all years ago, and none were very satisfactory. They all came at times when I was feeling down and lonely and just needed physical contact. I was almost oblivious to the guys I was with and wanted nothing from them but what would pleasure me. If it pleasured them fine, but it was what I wanted that was important. What they did was great but one sided. What’s nice about a LTR and now marriage is wanting to really please my partner, not just myself. When my DH is very happy I know I will be happy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had one in college. I did try to and think I did please her. Never saw her again as I was on a trip to a friends house. I still think about her. Nice figure and soft skin. I hope she is doing well.

Me too. I went down and she didn’t. What the hell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve had a few ONS, all years ago, and none were very satisfactory. They all came at times when I was feeling down and lonely and just needed physical contact. I was almost oblivious to the guys I was with and wanted nothing from them but what would pleasure me. If it pleasured them fine, but it was what I wanted that was important. What they did was great but one sided. What’s nice about a LTR and now marriage is wanting to really please my partner, not just myself. When my DH is very happy I know I will be happy.

I know this sounds disgusting but at least once in your life...while single....a really good ONS is a lifetime memory though not to be shared!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My one and only- I married him and it's still great.

no that's not what it means