Is this crazy?

[Anonymous]

You and your spouse both work, and you have kids, and somehow your spouse has friends over daily? I don't even understand how that's possible.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It sucks when you're not respected in your own home, but at this point what's done is done and you can't change the fact people are coming over. In your shoes I'd be pissed, but I also wouldn't lift a finger to help out (unless my mood changed and I felt like it, but in this case I probably wouldn't just to drive home the point that this wasn't my party.) Then I'd make a plate of food, chow down, and then go to a movie or to get a massage, window shopping, etc. Hide a few beers or whatever you want to have later. Don't shop. Don't clean up. Don't bring it up again except to ask how his party was. Do your own thing and get out of the house.

Like the DH who would like to invite friends and their family I to what is his home as well?

Super Bowl happ NS once a year. It’s not hard to predict that many people, including you, may have people over.

He has friends over regularly. He had friends over last week for a playoff game. Why can't one of the other people host this time? Why does it ALWAYS have to be at the home of the person who's wife specifically asked him NOT to invite people over this time? Sounds like OP usually acquiesces and goes along to get along and this time it was her DH being blatantly disrespectful.

[Anonymous]

He should handle but don’t let budget get out of cobtrolS
Is he a people pleaser?