I was left hanging on a date

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He took his coat to the bathroom?

I guess if I saw someone get all their stuff together to make a trip to the bathroom, I would wonder what's up.

He should have sent a text immediately after leaving or just told you this isn't working out. Maybe something about you was creepy or made him feel unsafe or uncomfortable and he felt his best option was to just disappear.

He never took his jacket off.

Did he eat his meal?

Yes he did and had two drinks.

[Anonymous]

Real manly man there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He took his coat to the bathroom?

I guess if I saw someone get all their stuff together to make a trip to the bathroom, I would wonder what's up.

He should have sent a text immediately after leaving or just told you this isn't working out. Maybe something about you was creepy or made him feel unsafe or uncomfortable and he felt his best option was to just disappear.

He never took his jacket off.

Did he eat his meal?

Yes he did and had two drinks.

In a wierd way it worked out. This is the cost of Internet efficiency. Manners out the window and no wasting time. I don't like it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Anyone's date is a human being and deserves a certain amount of respect, even if it is the worst match of all times. Second, I can accept that a woman going on a date puts a certain amount of effort into her hair, makeup, and clothes to look nice. Plus, and I know it is often a remote possibility, a woman on a date puts herself in a situation where there is potential for physical abuse from a man.

Translation: give her some freaking common courtesy at the least.

The countless millions of men who have been stood up by women say, "tough sht, toots, you get nothing."

[Anonymous]

Yikes. Online dating sucks!

[Anonymous]

What women do is agree to meet you, and then they don't even show up. Because their phone presented them with some theoretically better option. And they don't even bother to tell you or they give some lame excuse. So pardon me for not caring much when the shoe gets put on the other foot.

[Anonymous]

The only way this is acceptable is when one fears for one's personal safety. Absent that, there's no excuse.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Has to be asked: you sure you look in person like the photos in your profile?

Seriously? This means you wrap it up quickly, not leave someone sitting at table while you "go to the bathroom"!

If I showed up and she was way fatter or older than her photos, then she lied to me and I'd have no compunction about heading out the back door.

This one sounds more like he read her as whoa crazy crazy. If that's the case, you almost have to sneak away to avoid a scene. No one likes getting a drink thrown on them or being stabbed.

My first thought is that he was having an anxiety attack-had a couple drinks to see if he could settle, realized he couldn't and left.

[Anonymous]

You dodged a loser.

[Anonymous]

You should really take some time to ponder what about your put him off so badly

[Anonymous]

What a tool. Don't worry about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You should really take some time to ponder what about your put him off so badly

F you asshole

[Anonymous]

what a loser!

[Anonymous]

There needs to be a "Yelp" forum for online dates.

[Anonymous]

Sorry OP, that is unreal behavior on his part. A friend of mine went out with a man who licked his plate clean at the restaurant. It's a jungle out there!