I was left hanging on a date

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Has to be asked: you sure you look in person like the photos in your profile?

Seriously? This means you wrap it up quickly, not leave someone sitting at table while you "go to the bathroom"!

If I showed up and she was way fatter or older than her photos, then she lied to me and I'd have no compunction about heading out the back door.

Somehow I don’t think this will ever be a problem for you as you’ll likely never go on a date with a woman you don’t need to inflate beforehand.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Has to be asked: you sure you look in person like the photos in your profile?

Seriously? This means you wrap it up quickly, not leave someone sitting at table while you "go to the bathroom"!

If I showed up and she was way fatter or older than her photos, then she lied to me and I'd have no compunction about heading out the back door.

Guys lie all the time on line. But if you think they are a liar you don't just ditch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Has to be asked: you sure you look in person like the photos in your profile?

Seriously? This means you wrap it up quickly, not leave someone sitting at table while you "go to the bathroom"!

If I showed up and she was way fatter or older than her photos, then she lied to me and I'd have no compunction about heading out the back door.

2 wrongs don’t make it right. Be a gentleman and end the date politely. How you treat people matters and a woman who you do find attractive may just be watching you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Has to be asked: you sure you look in person like the photos in your profile?

I wondered that too.

[Anonymous]

I have ended dates quickly when it was clear things were not right, but I can not imagine just leaving someone there. I respect other peoples time too much. That is 45 min of op's life she would never get back.

[Anonymous]

What an ass. This is why you meet up for coffee or a drink first.

[Anonymous]

He took his coat to the bathroom?

I guess if I saw someone get all their stuff together to make a trip to the bathroom, I would wonder what's up.

He should have sent a text immediately after leaving or just told you this isn't working out. Maybe something about you was creepy or made him feel unsafe or uncomfortable and he felt his best option was to just disappear.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Has to be asked: you sure you look in person like the photos in your profile?

Seriously? This means you wrap it up quickly, not leave someone sitting at table while you "go to the bathroom"!

If I showed up and she was way fatter or older than her photos, then she lied to me and I'd have no compunction about heading out the back door.

This one sounds more like he read her as whoa crazy crazy. If that's the case, you almost have to sneak away to avoid a scene. No one likes getting a drink thrown on them or being stabbed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Has to be asked: you sure you look in person like the photos in your profile?

Yes I do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He took his coat to the bathroom?

I guess if I saw someone get all their stuff together to make a trip to the bathroom, I would wonder what's up.

He should have sent a text immediately after leaving or just told you this isn't working out. Maybe something about you was creepy or made him feel unsafe or uncomfortable and he felt his best option was to just disappear.

He never took his jacket off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He took his coat to the bathroom?

I guess if I saw someone get all their stuff together to make a trip to the bathroom, I would wonder what's up.

He should have sent a text immediately after leaving or just told you this isn't working out. Maybe something about you was creepy or made him feel unsafe or uncomfortable and he felt his best option was to just disappear.

He never took his jacket off.

Did he eat his meal?

[Anonymous]

He likely had another date lined up afterwards and your date was taking too long.

[Anonymous]

Anyone's date is a human being and deserves a certain amount of respect, even if it is the worst match of all times. Second, I can accept that a woman going on a date puts a certain amount of effort into her hair, makeup, and clothes to look nice. Plus, and I know it is often a remote possibility, a woman on a date puts herself in a situation where there is potential for physical abuse from a man.

Translation: give her some freaking common courtesy at the least.

[Anonymous]

Don’t ate another thought on him. Tell us about the other men you are interested in

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Has to be asked: you sure you look in person like the photos in your profile?

Seriously? This means you wrap it up quickly, not leave someone sitting at table while you "go to the bathroom"!

If I showed up and she was way fatter or older than her photos, then she lied to me and I'd have no compunction about heading out the back door.

I’m a woman and have met guys who look nothing like their photos (older, fatter, balder) before but I didn’t just leave them hanging because I’m not a terrible person. The only excuse for this behavior is if you felt physically unsafe.