Don’t like my brothers’s new girlfriend

Anonymous
You’re awful, OP.
Anonymous
Wow, this was the first time meeting her, and you're not accounting for nerves, etc.? She tried too hard? Wow, poor you. She tried too hard to connect with your family.
Anonymous
I’m awful. Whatever. I don’t see why he couldn’t make things work with his ex. She was nice, smart, pretty and got along with us too.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I’m awful. Whatever. I don’t see why he couldn’t make things work with his ex. She was nice, smart, pretty and got along with us too.


If you like his ex so much, why don't YOU marry her? You could totally make things work with her. She is nice, smart, pretty, and gets along with your family, too.
Anonymous
I call troll.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m awful. Whatever. I don’t see why he couldn’t make things work with his ex. She was nice, smart, pretty and got along with us too.


If you like his ex so much, why don't YOU marry her? You could totally make things work with her. She is nice, smart, pretty, and gets along with your family, too.



Don’t be stupid. They were together 2.5 years. She was like family. I was close to her and now we barely talk. I don’t think an explanation is unreasonable.
Anonymous
Whoever he is having sex with at the moment has an enormous advantage over all other relationships. That includes you not just the ex. So, you can have a brother and a new girlfriend or you can be left in the dust, OP. You have complete control over how this goes all you have to do is pick which scenario you want.
Anonymous
I really hope you do not have any boys.
Anonymous
Bitter and mean is such an ugly look, OP. Really, really ugly. That’s you right now.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:One of your complaints is her cookies look like balloons instead of ornaments? Poor woman.


Not really a complaint. That’s just what she told everyone over and over again every time someone had a cookie. Everyone else found it endearing.


But you were already looking down on her for bringing cookies instead of wine “like a normal person” Then she had the nerve to make “endearing” comments about her misshapen cookies! The nerve!!

Sounds like you are jealous & perhaps even suspect that your family already likes her more than they do you (who could blame them??).



Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Cookies shaped like balloons taste just like cookies shaped like ornaments.

I thought Christmas Cookies were what you give people at this time of year.


No, NORMAL people always give a bottle of wine.
Anonymous
She sounds great. I’m having a hard time finding any redeeming qualities of yours, though, OP.

Assuming that in real life you’re not really as self-centered and unkind as you appear in this thread, why don’t you reach out to his ex and build your own, separate friendship with her if you liked her that much. Your resentment over her split with your brother seems to be what’s driving your unfair assessment of the new gf.
Anonymous
Bubbly=airhead
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Is she the sitter?


No apparently she’s a NICU nurse which is awesome, but not after the fifth time he said it.


Wait, so not only did she have the nerve to bring misshapen cookies & make herself look endearing to the rest of your family but she also has a high pressure, under paid, life saving job that they found to be impressive???!!! What a bitch!
Anonymous
"Emotional Incest". Look it up op. We're all so sorry that you can't marry your brother.

You are a very dysfunctional person if you think you get a say in who another adult has a relationship with.
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