Sister in law won’t add me to Facebook because she doesn’t want to make my husband’s ex mad

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s not Facebook that matters, it’s the point. She never sees her neices and has an ongoing problem with me no matter what I do. I used to watch her kid every weekend so she could go out and she still “hates” me? I think the whole Facebook thing just confirms her hatred and it’s surprising to me, I guess. I’m just shocked is all. I wanted a good relationship with my in laws but she has ruined that for me, for absolutely NO reason.

Again - you’re just not getting the REAL point. You’re tying emotions to FB. Who does that? How in the world does her choosing not to be FB friends equate to her hating you now and ruining your relationship with ILs? If you really cared about relationships you wouldn’t hold invites for the cousins of your own children out of spite. You’re petty and immature and frankly you’re showing why your SIL keeps you at a distance.

You’re assuming SIL chooses not to be on FB with you because of the ex - she may just genuinely not want to be your friend but is mature enough to be fake nice for sake of family.

Honestly you sound exhausting in 2/3 posts so I can only imagine how you operate in real life. Mature people don’t want or need drama.

No, I’m not assuming, Dr. Phil. She flat out told me that she won’t add me because it will make his ex mad. Why are you so angry? I find it hilarious that you keep bringing Facebook up but you sit on thus website 24/7 hahaha hypocrite.

report

10/03/2018 22:19

Subject: Re:Sister in law won’t add me to Facebook because she doesn’t want to make my husband’s ex mad

quote

Anonymous

Anonymous wrote:What kind of grown woman cares about who she is friends with on social media?

What kind of grown woman sits on a forum all day?

report

10/03/2018 22:24

Subject: Sister in law won’t add me to Facebook because she doesn’t want to make my husband’s ex mad

quote

Anonymous

The ex is the mother of her three nieces/nephews. Of course she wants to stay on good terms with her. And of course his family is going to take the side of wife number one.