Wife Doesn’t Want Kids Right Now..
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Anonymous
| PP here. Also grad school (if she's thinking of going back) is a good time to have a kid. Better than in your first year or two of a new job or career... |
Anonymous
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I’m with the posters who recommended counseling; this is lose-lose situation. Sounds like the wife is of the mind that kids would be “nice to have” but she will be ok if she never has kids. It seems like OP longed having kids for quite some time... As someone who suffered from infertility at age of 28, I can tell you that none of the girl Tess are pleasant, so the “simple check if they are OK”, is not something a woman who doesn’t really-really want to get pregnant will agreed to... All this talk about declining fertility— highly doubt it is “new news” to DW — she is just not that into having kids right now.
Op, question: is there a milestone in your wife’s career that is achievable and is her decision pegged to (like earning certain certication or position or partnership)? If yes, than it is sort of understandable... if not, I really suggest therapy, because she is just delaying things... |